'I want to find out if she's chatting with other guys'

Oct 19, 2017, 07:47 IST | Dr Love

Illustration/Ravi Jadhav
Illustration/Ravi Jadhav

How do I find out if my girlfriend is chatting with other guys on WhatsApp?
Why can't she chat with other men, online or offline? If you don't trust her, why are you in this relationship?

What is the right time for a couple to experiment sexually? My boyfriend and I are happy with each other physically, but he has been suggesting a few things that I find pretty shocking, and I don't know if I should agree, considering we have only been together for a year or so. Should I go ahead just to make him happy, or wait until I think he is serious enough about me to agree to some of the things he wants me to. I am not a prude, but I don't want to be used by anyone and then discarded, so I am always a little wary about these things. I think he's a great guy, but I want to wait and see what he is like when I refuse, just to find out more about him as a person. Will this push him away?
It's your body and your right to choose what you want to do. I'm not sure I understand whether or not there ought to be a time limit before which you decide to experiment with your boyfriend sexually, but you have the right to decide what you want to do, and when. Having said that, there is no guarantee that agreeing to experiment sexually will guarantee that your relationship survives a lot longer, simply because physical intimacy is only one aspect of what makes a relationship work.

I have a crush on a girl, but she never responds to me. I asked for her number, but she refused to give it. What can I do? - Ayusha M
There's nothing you can do. She is obviously not interested, so I suggest you forget about her and concentrate on meeting someone who reciprocates your feelings and agrees to give you her number.

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