'I am in love with my colleague's writings!'
Dear Diana, I am 25 years old and recently shifted to Mumbai. There's a guy in my office who is part of our team.
He comes across as arrogant and self-centered. However, I recently came across his blog and I was surprised to see his creative side. He has written some lovely poems, not to mention his random musings on everyday life. It’s like he’s a completely different person in the virtual world. To be frank, I’m in love with what he has written. Should I extend my friendship and take things forward?
You are one confused soul! First, you think he is arrogant then you fall in love with his writings! You need to make up your mind. There is no harm striking a friendship with him. You are assuming what kind of a person he is even without knowing him properly. Perhaps when you get to know him, you will have a different viewpoint. So don’t pass judgements till you get to know him well.
Diana will solve it!
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