I am married but attracted to a male colleague

Dear Diana,
Five months ago, I changed my job. At my new work place, in  a travel agency, I find myself attracted to one of the managers. The problem is I am married with a child. Now I find myself fantasising about him. I get a strange feeling when he is in the room. I get the feeling he feels the same as he keeps looking at me. I don't know what to do. It's not that I don't care for my husband and kid but I have never felt like this about someone. I can't even explain it but it is the strongest I have ever felt towards anyone. I know I will  never leave my husband and my child. What do I do?
- Roma

Illustration/ Jishu Dev Malakar

Dear Roma,
Do not fall prey to this temptation, it really isn't worth it as it will most likely lead to something more. And you will end up regretting it and feeling guilty all your life. The idea to be intimate with someone outside marriage may seem irresistibly exciting. You feel high for a brief time like a drug. But you have to realise how horrific this destruction will be to your family. Have you ever wondered how your husband will feel when he finds out? More likely than not he will divorce you, so don't even bother to go there, you will end up in the most terrible place.

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