We hit it off really well and soon we were having an affair. Although we seemed to be doing fine, we called it quits last week after much discussion (read: arguments). However, it hasn’t ended completely because we keep bumping into each other since we work in the same team. I’m single so I don’t think I’m cheating on anyone. Just that this affair is affecting my professional life and I want a way out.
You are one helluva confused soul. You are single, so what is the problem? If it affects work, then you should have harboured such thoughts at the outset — before falling head over heels in love with her. Now you say that you have split. So why are you still thinking about her? You are 32 and I am sure you want to settle down. May be she was the girl for you. There are many office romances that have live happily ever after.
Diana will solve it!
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