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Is lack of girlfriend in life a problem or lack of sex?

Updated on: 14 April,2010 10:06 AM IST  | 
Diana |

I don't have a girl friend

Is lack of girlfriend in life a problem or lack of sex?

Dear Diana,

I don't have a girl friend. I have a good job and have nice friends around me. I always feel that something is missing in my life. And that something is a girl. A person with whom I can share everything. Another problem is sex. I have not even kissed anyone. When my friends say they had sex with their girl, I feel very embarassed. Sometimes I feel I should have sex very badly and go to extent of calling an escort, but then I stop myself. Is my problem, sex or a girl friend, I don't know.


Name withheld



Dear Friend,

When you aren't content with your lot, a lack of anything might get magnified into a problem greater than it should be. Worry about it too much and it will reflect in your general attitude towards life. And if you're sex-starved and frustrated about it, well that's a bigger demon. Visiting prostitutes or escorts leaves you open to the danger of contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Why don't you try masturbating to relieve yourself of sexual tension until you find a sexual partner?

Crazy about my mistress

Dear Diana,

Is this normal? I am so still very crazy about my mistress of three years. Even though it has been somewhat on and off. We deeply love each other and can't seem to get enough of each other sexually. We just click in so many ways even though she is much younger than me!! I just figured that after three years maybe the initial craziness about each other would wear off? She doesn't care if I leave my children. We just love the times that we can share together.


Name withheld


Dear Friend,

Yes, it is a bit unusual for the initial spark to be there for this long. Generally, affairs are about sex, sex and more sex.... Thats the reason why the spark dies after some time. No relationship can sustain with just sex... I guess maybe you both are more emotionally tuned with each other.

However, what makes me wonder is if you claim to love her so much and she is a good woman, then why you did not marry her yet??? How do you feel when she is away from you? Do you miss her as a person or you miss the sex? How do you both tackle disagreements? Try to answer these questions honestly. If you feel that she offers you more than just the sex then you are possibly in a good relationship. Separate from your wife.

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