Love and marriages

Whenever we try to find out the relationship between love and marriage both seems to be synonymous u2013 well is it? So let's check out what these terms really mean to us. Love is a dream and marriage is a reality. And when both dream and reality comes together it is the best thing that can happen to a person. So what love is actually and how it impersonates the marriage?

Love means any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

Love usually refers to a deep, ineffable feeling of tenderly caring for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual emotional closeness of familial and platonic love to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

And marriage is a social, religious, spiritual, or legal union of individuals. This union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding.

Marriage is an institution in which interpersonal relationships are acknowledged by the state, by religious authority, or both. It is often viewed as a contract. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution, in accordance with marriage laws of the jurisdiction. If recognized by the state, by the religion(s) to which the parties belong or by society in general, the act of marriage changes the personal and social status of the individuals who enter into it.

Any long-term successful relationship calls for both love and emotional bonding and effort and hard work to carry it for long. So when we decide to spend the rest of our life together by getting married then only the actual love starts.

The married life constantly needs to nurture the feelings of both the partners. It requires mutual respect for each other and time and attention as any other aspect of life. Love marriage can be the best thing if there is effort and commitment from both the side.

But who say love marriages are bed or roses? Not exactly, love marriages have both pros and cons. It gives us time to know the person with whom we have decided to spend the entire life. We can understand each other in a better manner. On the other hand we start liking each other the way we want to see him or her. And later on after marriage when they behave the way they are it becomes difficult for us to accept.

But if you really love somebody then you need to nurture your relation daily. Every relation has certain demands and certain needs to be met if it is to thrive and endure. So if you want to make your love marriage a success than give your marriage time.

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