We both work as flight pursuers. As we are both from outside Mumbai, we have rented a place together. However, when we are at home, he expects me to do everything. It surprises me a lot to notice that he’s such a go-to guy at work and turns into something completely opposite at home. He is so lazy that does he does not even budge an inch at home. What should I do? We’re planning to get married.
It appears that your guy is a crazy, lazy jerk. He is showing his true colours at the beginning of the relationship, so it is up to you whether you want to continue in it. He obviously belongs to those group of guys who feel the household stuff is the woman’s responsibility alone. Stop doing things for him. Let him for a change move and get going in the house as well. If he is still adamant, you need to do a rethink on the guy.