'My ex has hooked up with my best friend'
Dear Diana, I am 26 and was in a four-year-relationship with a guy who is now with my best friend.
We broke up four months ago and my friend recently told me that she’s going out with him. I know it’s none of my business but I feel betrayed on both levels. My friend could have been discreet enough to stay away from someone with whom I shared so much. And at the same time I wonder whether my ex is using my friend against me. I can’t get any work done lately thanks to the thoughts that run through my mind.
You broke up four months ago so why are you still pining for him? The best way to heal a broken heart is to completly detach yourself from memories. You’ll decided to call it quits, so it should not be your business who he hooks up with. As it is your best buddy, she is feeding you information about him. You need to stop discussing him with her. This is the only way you can heal your broken heart and move on with your life. Whether he has hooked up with your pal to get back to your or he has really fallen for her – all this should not matter to you now.
Diana will solve it!
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