'My girlfriend is a gold digger'
Dear Diana, Everything was going fine with me and my girlfriend until she began putting conditions for the marriage.
Earlier, she wanted me to have a stable job which I did. Then she wanted me to buy a house so I took a loan and bought a place. Now she wants me to buy a car. I’m not at all prepared for such extravagant buys at this stage of my career. What should I do with this gold digger?
All this while you have been catering to her demands. So she kept piling on her demands because she knew that you would do it. Not for a moment did she think that at what cost you are going to repay the house loan. This girl lacks empathy. If before marriage, she is placing one demand after another, wonder what she will do post marriage. I suggest you do a rethink about this relationship. You cannot cater to her every demand. Next time when she springs an unreasonable demand say a no and then gauge her reaction too.
Diana will solve it!
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