I am 26 and my girlfriend is 24. Six months ago, her family relocated to Hyderabad. For a while, she kept in touch with me, but now she has stopped communicating with me. Why is she doing this to me? Sometimes her best buddy calls to tell me that she is tied up in work and will call soon.
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It’s insensitive of her to not let you know what is on her mind. It appears to be a case of out of sight, out of mind. Whatever the reasons, she should tell you the truth behind her silence. Maybe the long-distance relationship is proving to be too much to handle for her. Or perhaps she is so busy that she has no time left to chat with you. If she wants to move on, it is important that she tells you, so that you can seek closure in the relationship. She has kept you dangling which is leaving you frustrated, so the faster you know her answer, the better it will be for you.
Diana will solve it!
Write to Diana at firstname.lastname@example.org, or fax her on 24150009. You can also post letters to Dear Diana, Mid Day, Peninsula Centre, Dr S S Rao Road, opp Mahatma Gandhi Hospital, Parel, Mumbai 400012