'My girlfriend is in no mood to get back with me...'

Dear Diana,
I was with this girl for three years. We broke up due to foolish reasons. With every passing day, I was becoming more and more aware that she wanted to break free. So I thought the right thing to do was to take time off from each other. It has been a while since we went our ways and it looks like she does not want to get back with me. I have tried to get in touch with her, but she is not responding. Is it over for us?
— Junaid


Dear Junaid,
Get the hint and move on. This girl is not the least interested in you or even trying to give the relationship a second shot. The faster you move on, the better it will be for you. It appears that there was only you in the relationship and she was looking for a way out. When you decided to give her time off, she saw it as an opportunity to move on in life. You were a fool to believe her. Move on and next time be wary.

Dear Diana,
Sometime back, I met a girl on the train to my native place. She was nice and we hit it off immediately. I had the most memorable journey of my life. We exchanged contact details and kept in touch, but it took her three months to let me know that she already has a boyfriend. And all this while, I was dreaming of a life with her. I don't understand why she did this to me. It's not like I was hiding my feelings for her. I thought she was in love with
me too.
— Raunaq

Dear Raunaq,
This girl just led you and took you for a ride — literally on a train. It was just time pass for her. You gave her attention and when she realised that you had fallen for you, she played along. You had told her clearly about your feelings for her, so why did she take so long to respond? Forget this entire episode and move on in life.

Diana will solve it!
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