'My girlfriend is moving away from me...'

Jul 08, 2014, 06:39 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana,
Of late, my girlfriend has started behaving strangely. First, she told me that she wants to avoid seeing me as she wants to concentrate on her studies. Now she tells me she needs some time off. Two days ago, she messaged me to say that she's planning to shift to Pune for her post-graduate studies. I don't know what to tell her. I can't live without her. Why is she behaving so strangely?
— Raaj

Illustration/Amit Bandre
Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Raaj,
It is time you get the hint, this girl is not interested in you. She is coming up with one excuse after another. It is clear that she wants to move on. Strangely, she is not telling you the truth and prefers to be evasive in her replies. You may be in love with her, but she no longer cares for you. If she did, she would not treat you like. Also, why are you taking all this from her? It is time she told you what is going on in her mind. She might want a break in the relationship because of her studies. Is this the only reason or is she bored of you? Or perhaps there is someone else on the scene? Get to know the real picture and then act accordingly.

Dear Diana,
I m 30 while my boyfriend is 27. I'm a divorcee, but my guy loves me and doesn't care about my past. The only problem is that he is not ready to tell his parents about my divorce. If he has accepted me, why can't he just tell the truth? He wants us to hide this truth because he thinks it will hurt his parents. I have met them and they come across as forward-looking people, but he doesn't wish to take any chances.
— Sumaiya

Dear Sumaiya,
Sooner or later they will find out or someone will tell them. It is better that he reveals the truth himself. A relationship based on lies cannot be sustained for long. Imagine how they will feel when they get to know from others.

Diana will solve it!
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