Dear Diana I met this guy at a party. Within two hours of chatting, we exchanged numbers. We kept SMSing each other if not talking on the cell. But he appeared to be in a hurry and popped the question: "What are we?" I told him for the moment we can keep talking. We can be friends and see how things go. I am 22 and he is 26. After six months of being with him, I found out he was cheating on me. I happened to see his mobile and the messages that he had sent to some woman. I stopped talking to him. But he charmed me yet again and recently we've started talking again. But I really don't feel like he loves me. What should I do? - TR
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Dear TR, Convinced that he had cheated on you and after having broken off with him, why did you start talking to him? This man is definitely not trustworthy. It appears that he is just out for some fun and gullible girls like you are his easy prey. The very fact that he asked you, "What are we?" was an indication that this man is one insecure wimp. The faster you let go off him the better it will be for you. Did you ever ask him who this woman was? Why was he sending her the messages? I am sure he will not even provide a proper answer. He knows how to sweet talk which he did to get you back in his life. If you still want to be with him, first sit down and have a frank chat with him.