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Dear Diana,
I'm a 23-year-old gay guy. I'm in love with a guy who is 38 and we have been in a relationship for a year now. Of late, he's been very busy and tied up with work. He is also very stressed and was hospitalised because of it. We had a small argument and I banged the phone; that's where it all began. He is blaming me for his stress and for his hospitalisation. He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he doesn't think I can handle it. He says we can only be friends. But that ain't enough for me. Life was so beautiful when we were together. I was never happier. He's married and stays with his family (wife and daughter) and I don't have any problem with that. I stay alone and work in Mumbai. Even I have tensions but when he was with me, he forgot everything. We haven't met for two months now. He calls me but doesn't talk to me the way he used to. I
know he loves me but don't know why he's being this way.
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Raj
Dear Raj,
At the risk of rubbing yourself raw, you ought to prefer quality over quantity. Think about it. You've been relieving yourself this way for the last seven years that often. Don't you grow tired of the same routine. Where's the fun in that? Also, as far as I know, masturbation (even excessive masturbation) has no side effects, and has absolutely nothing to do with weight loss or gain. I think once you get married and enjoy sex, you'll grow out of this habit, unless it's become more of an addiction than anything else.
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