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She's a tomboy who wants me to wear girlie clothes!
Dear Diana,
I'ma 22 year old guy. I completed a diploma in fashion designing. To gain work experience, I'm working with a fashion designer in her store. She is a 27-year-old tom-boy. She always wears manly clothes. Once on a weekly holiday, she called me to work. As there was no other staff that day, she wanted me to check an outfit she had designed and asked me to wear it. As I'm a fresher, I accepted it and wore a dark blue knee-length stretch skirt dress. Later, on the pretext of checking it, she started touching and fondling me. Initially, I felt odd but frankly I enjoyed the act and we got carried away. This has now become a common thing and she also called me to stay at her home one night where she told me to wear women's clothes yet again. I enjoy it. I am
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Illustration/Sameer Pawar | a normal guy but don't know what's next. Should I continue?
Rehan
Dear Rehan,
Are you gaining any knowledge with these extra-curricular sessions? Then why are you breaking your head over it. If role-reversal is her thing, and you're okay with it, chill out and enjoy it while it lasts. If it's a problem with you and you feel violated (I think it would be hypocritical if you did feel that judging from the reactions you've mentioned), by all means, leave the job and join some other firm. If you think staying on will improve your prospects, play along.
They fight too much. I want it to stop!
Dear Diana,
A friend of mine is 59 and his wife 53 years old. His wife suspects him of having a relationship with a woman and has made his life a living hell since the last few months. On any receipt of wrong numbers, any arguments or at any time, she will bring the same topic up. He loves his wife very much & tries his best to make her happy by taking her out. As long as she's occupied, she is fine. When she's alone, she gets back to the same old drama. I want to help my friend out and wish to bring peace in his life. Advise me on how I should go about doing it.
ABC
Dear Friend,
When a couple is warring, it's always best to let them be and sort their problems out until those differences compel your friend to ask you explicitly for help. Don't really interfere and ask them both to seek counselling in stead. Maybe, it's in her nature to be suspicious because of a bad experience in the past with another member of her family. I think there are past demons (emotional ones) at work here. I understand that your friend is only being reasonable and sympathise with him, but he has to be patient about the whole situation.
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