According to the latest survey by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce, this one shift changes the entire way divorced singles match. It shows that 9,859 divorced singles shared that they look beyond the surface-level passion and grand promises: they focus on the small, almost invisible qualities that reveal more about what life would look like with a certain someone.

The study was conducted among 9,800 active users aged 28 to 50 from all major metros and smaller cities in India. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "There's no lack of hope among the second-chance seekers when you compare them to the first-timers. The difference is that they are more meticulous in their matching style; we have noted from this consumer study that there are a few very basic yet extremely revealing things that divorced daters care about when considering commitment and remarriage. It actually comes from a higher degree of emotional clarity in their case."

Want me or a spouse?

It's underrated but a true test of whether a relationship has potential. After a divorce, people usually return for a second chance with a stronger sense of identity. Over 4,000 previously married singles between 35 and 50 years of age shared that they really put weight on what their match is seeking; they try noting if they are desperate for a spouse to settle down with or if they truly want them. The survey says 39 per cent of these singles clarified that they have a career they care about, friends and family they are close to, and other individual preferences that they would continue to maintain; these people do not want to mould themselves into the idea of a spouse for another person anymore. Moreover, this time around, they truly want to be with someone who wants them for who they are and not just as a spouse.

Let's disagree without turning into enemies?

Couples will fight and disagree on things; that's inevitable. But how they handle the disagreement reveals a lot about the kind of future they are looking at. More than 47 per cent of divorced singles from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities shared that they not only note how their match handles a conflict but also what happens after. Among the few important factors they specifically focus on, 4,544 singles mentioned whether a conflict becomes a list of everything that ever went wrong, and 2,381 divorced users added whether the fight suddenly brings up the past and they act like two teams instead of handling it as "us versus the issue". This factor seemed particularly important to divorced women who have experienced severe conflicts in their marriage, which eventually led to the relationship breakdown.

What if life refuses to go according to plan?

Everything goes smoothly when the plan works out; a person can be very charming on a well-planned date, they can say all the right things and impress in a single go. But amid the challenges for divorced singles, they are more interested in seeing what happens when the plan doesn't work out, because life does not usually follow plans. For these singles, such mundane moments can reveal more than any romantic gesture. Over 51 per cent of second-chance seekers between 28 and 45 years of age revealed that they are seeking flexibility in their partner the second time around. Asha, 33, said, "I always see how a person reacts when their plan fails. Are they impatient, do they suddenly turn rude, do they sulk or focus on finding a solution, and importantly, do they make everyone around them miserable? I don't think that if a person exhibits a few of these traits, they are a red flag. These are just personality quirks, but I, personally, do not want to deal with it once again."

A study conducted earlier this year by Gleeden in association with IPSOS among 1,500 respondents shows significant openness towards using AI for intimate purposes. The findings from Delhi, Bengaluru, Mumbai and Hyderabad reveal that not only are urban Indians are experimenting with AI, but they are beginning to explore how it can fit into their most private spaces.

Delhi says, “Let’s Ask AI”

When it comes to seeking information on sex education and sexual health, the survey shows that 77 per cent of Bengaluru respondents said they would certainly or probably turn to AI, followed by 75 per cent in Delhi, 72 per cent in Mumbai and 67 per cent in Hyderabad. But Delhi becomes even more prominent when the conversation shifts from information to imagination. It added that 76 per cent of Delhi respondents said they would use AI to share sexual fantasies or ask intimate questions. Bengaluru follows at 67 per cent, while Mumbai stands at 62 per cent and Hyderabad at 55 per cent. The numbers suggest that AI is increasingly being perceived as a private space where questions that may otherwise be difficult to ask can be explored without hesitation.

Dear AI, this is awkward… 

AI is also finding a place in conversations around sexual wellbeing. The survey said 67 per cent of respondents in Delhi said they would use AI to solve sexual problems such as libido issues or lack of sexual satisfaction. The figure stands at 58 per cent in Hyderabad, 57 per cent in Bengaluru and 63 per cent in Mumbai. When it comes to improving erotic skills, however, Bengaluru takes the lead at 75 per cent, followed by Delhi at 73 per cent, Mumbai at 65 per cent and Hyderabad at 59 per cent. This points towards two distinct ways people are using AI: as a source of answers when something feels wrong, and as a tool for exploring or improving intimacy.

Bengaluru isn’t just coding anymore 

The willingness to experiment becomes more visible when AI enters the realm of virtual sexual experiences. The survey says 55 per cent of Hyderabad respondents said they would certainly or probably use AI to masturbate with virtual pornstars, compared with 50 per cent in Delhi, 48 per cent in Bengaluru and 44 per cent in Mumbai. For celebrity avatars, Delhi leads at 53 per cent, followed by Hyderabad at 50 per cent, Bengaluru at 45 per cent and Mumbai at 40 per cent. AI-generated experiences involving people known to the user also see considerable openness: 57 per cent in Delhi, 52 per cent in Bengaluru, 50 per cent in Hyderabad and 42 per cent in Mumbai said they would consider such experiences.

The fantasy has gone digital

Sexual games involving a companion or adult chatbot attract interest from 52 per cent of Bengaluru respondents, the highest among the four cities. Hyderabad follows at 47 per cent, Delhi at 49 per cent and Mumbai at 35 per cent. Similarly, 58 per cent of Delhi respondents were open to masturbating to pornographic images or videos of people aligned with their preferences. The corresponding figures were 46 per cent in Hyderabad, 44 per cent in Mumbai and 41 per cent in Bengaluru.

As Sybil Shiddell, country manager, Gleeden India, says, “AI is increasingly becoming a private space for people to explore questions, curiosity and fantasies that they may not always feel comfortable discussing openly. What stands out in these findings is how differently people across Tier-1 cities are engaging with AI—from seeking sexual health information to exploring virtual experiences. It shows that AI is becoming part of the evolving conversation around intimacy itself.”

Four cities, four types of digital intimacy 

The numbers paint a clear picture: Delhi is particularly open to intimate questions and fantasy, Bengaluru stands out for erotic exploration and sexual games, Hyderabad shows strong interest in virtual experiences, while Mumbai, although comparatively more measured, still records substantial openness across categories. For India’s Tier-1 population, AI is no longer simply something people use. Increasingly, it is something they are willing to confide in, experiment with and explore intimacy through.

Travel is becoming a big part of that story. Ranking third among the top interests on Tinder in India amongst users aged 18 to 25, it's more than just a hobby, it's a way for young Indian singles to help them express themselves, spark conversations and discover compatibility, one travel story at a time.

Why travel has become dating's ultimate icebreaker

Travel has become much more than a bucket-list item. A conversation about someone's favourite trip often leads to stories about family traditions, local food, cultural experiences and moments that shaped who they are. Instead of simply revealing where someone wants to go, travel offers a glimpse into how they see the world.

As Dr Chandni Tugnait, relationship expert with the dating app explains, "Travel has evolved beyond being a hobby. It has become a window into how someone experiences life. When people talk about travel today, they are often revealing much more than the places they've visited. They are revealing their curiosity, adaptability, openness to uncertainty and willingness to step outside familiar routines. In many ways, travel has become a modern love language. It allows people to understand not just where someone wants to go, but who they become when they step into unfamiliar spaces."

The great geographic shift: Why Indians are looking beyond borders

Young Indian singles today aren't just travelling to new places, they're opening themselves up to new perspectives. The observations come through the app's feature 'Passport Mode' that offers a glimpse into this shift, showing that young Indians are increasingly choosing to connect with people beyond their own cities, states and even countries.

From bustling Indian metros like New Delhi, Bengaluru, Mumbai, Kolkata, Pune, Gurugram, Hyderabad, Chandigarh, Chennai and Noida to global cities such as Dubai, Los Angeles, New York, Amsterdam, Kathmandu, Lahore, Manila, Pattaya and Singapore, Indian singles are meeting new people across the world. At a country level, the USA, UAE, Thailand, Nepal, Philippines, Pakistan, Australia, the Netherlands, Japan and Spain emerge among the most popular choices among Indian singles, reflecting curiosity that extends across cultures, lifestyles and experiences.

What's driving this openness? Dr Tugnait calls it a fundamental psychological shift in how young Indian people are approaching relationships. 

She says, "Previous generations often viewed compatibility through shared backgrounds. Today's young Indian adults are increasingly recognising that emotional compatibility can exist across cultures, languages, and geographies. This suggests that young people in India are becoming less interested in finding someone who looks exactly like them, and more interested in finding someone who expands how they see the world."

This shift is also playing out in real numbers as the study says 41 per cent of young singles in India are open to dating people from other cities whilst 33 per cent are open to starting a relationship with someone in a different country.

The takeaway? Compatibility is likely no longer about finding someone from the same neighbourhood but more about shared values, curiosity and a willingness to explore new perspectives together.

A recent relationship survey by Indian dating app QuackQuack shows that the biggest competition might not be a person at all. A majority of singles participating in it shared that it is usually the idea of the perfect partner they have in their minds: someone who is flawlessly compatible, successful, emotionally and physically in the top tier, and someone who always knows exactly what to say and do in any given situation. Practically, it is much harder to compete with someone's imagined version of a perfect partner than to compete with their ex.

The survey was conducted among 11738 daters between 22 and 35 from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities across India. Participants came from various professional and educational fields for comprehensive findings. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, added, "Most daters have an internal checklist of how their ideal partner should look or feel like. This is especially true for singles who have experienced a difficult breakup; they become more vigilant and create a whole list of non-negotiables and traits they definitely want in their partner. But for a match to compete with someone who doesn't exist can be quite challenging. It is one thing to have healthy standards and a whole other thing to expect a custom-made partner who comes tailored to your emotional blueprint."

No bad days ever

An imaginary partner comes with one of the best qualities: they never disappoint. There are no bad days. About 36 per cent of Indian singles between 22 and 30 years of age said their ideal partner should never forget to call, make time even on the busiest days, never disagree, and should not need time to open up. But these participants also understand that real people come with contradictions; real people are rarely without flaws. The survey says 4 in 10 respondents from Tier 1 cities admitted that they have rejected matches because the person did not fit their emotional template and later regretted their decision. 

Participants also suggested that while they all have an ideal partner in mind, they also understand that following the idea to the core will only lead to compatibility being judged against unrealistic perfection instead of potential.

Longer checklist after heartbreak

The survey shows that people with an experience of heartbreak and problematic relationships tend to be more specific about their idea of a perfect partner. The findings show that 18 per cent of singles who suffered from communication issues in their past relationship now want immediate transparency, and 21 per cent of singles who broke up over trust issues cannot date someone who isn't willing to update their every move. The survey reveals that 7 in 10 Indian singles between 30 and 35 years of age, who were neglected by their ex described their ideal partner as someone who will constantly reassure them. 

While these are understandable expectations, they can turn finding a match into a quality-control test.

Imaginary partner vs Real can make real underwhelming

The idea of a perfect partner can make the real experience with a potential partner underwhelming, said over 39 per cent of users from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities. Adrija (27) said, "Comparing a real relationship with all its nuances with the feeling we have constructed from watching countless reels, movies, and curated social media posts is quite unfair. It happened to me. I had certain things in my mind when I thought of an ideal partner and when I went on a date with a match, the experience was very underwhelming. I realised later that the problem was not with the guy but with my unrealistic expectations." 

Indian singles who are dating explained that having a checklist is important, but sticking to it and expecting one to tick them all is only going to lead to missing out on what could've otherwise been amazing matches.

As remarriage becomes less of a taboo, Indian matchmaking app Rebounce, surveyed over 9,000 previously married singles to understand the burdens these users quietly carry.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Understanding the hidden challenges of previously married singles, the weight they shoulder, helps us create a better space and cater to them in a way mainstream dating platforms don't. From our studies, we have noticed that the challenge for these singles isn't just finding the right partner, but also handling so many hidden nuances. Creating an emotional and practical space for the new relationship, for the new marriage to become its own family, is one of those."

The survey was conducted among 9,485 previously married singles aged 28 to 45 from metros such as Delhi, Mumbai, Hyderabad, Bengaluru, and Kolkata, as well as other Tier 2 and 3 cities. The participants were asked about the challenges of building a new family without having to negotiate the architecture of the old one.

Is the ex-spouse an invisible third wheel?

According to 49 per cent of divorced singles, one of the least openly discussed issues is when an ex-spouse does not automatically disappear from their life just because the marriage ended. Nayanika, 30 years old, said, "Not all marriages end on bad terms. Mine was mutual, so my ex and I stayed in touch. Somehow, I realised that it was ever-so-slightly affecting my new relationship. Not because my partner was insecure about it, but because I was unknowingly bringing the rhythm and style of my previous marriage into my new relationship, whether it was the expectations I had from my partner or assumptions I made."

The survey shows 6 out of 10 people also suggested that the new spouse can emotionally struggle with how much space the previous marriage occupies, and this is especially true among divorced singles co-parenting their children with the ex-spouse. 3845 respondents over 35 suggested that the answer is not to sever ties with the first family but to deliberately define what belongs to the new marriage, like new rituals, holidays, financial decisions, and boundaries. This gives the second marriage an identity of its own.

Children and the question of loyalty

The survey further added that 38 per cent of single mothers and 31 per cent of single fathers from Tier 1 and 2 cities clarified that the problem of a blended family is not that the kids won't accept their stepparent, as most people assume. The problem lies in loyalty. Participants shared noticing their children worrying about their biological parents as soon as they started accepting the new spouse as a parental figure. Ajay, a single dad of a 7 year old, said, "Conversations about co-parenting, boundaries, and expectations are not ones you should wait on till it's too late. Any couple considering remarriage needs to discuss parenting authority and how much to expect from the child and how to handle any rejection from the kids, before a difficult situation forces the conversation."

Benchmark dilemma

Over 4,500 participants whose first marriage lasted over five years explained that the previous relationship sometimes becomes an unfair benchmark for the second. 26 per cent of men and women between 30 and 40 years of age said that sometimes there is an invisible scorecard when a person considers remarriage: it specifically notes any similarities between the ex and the present partner and immediately decides this relationship is doomed to end eventually, just like the first one. While experience offers clarity, it can also make people hypervigilant. Every conflict can trigger memories of the marriage that failed. Vartika, a 34-year-old divorcee from Delhi, shared, "We become so fixated on not repeating the same mistake that we can start assuming that our new partner is guilty of something already. The trick is to separate the history from the evidence."

In 2026, Indians have found another confidant: Artificial Intelligence, or AI as it is more popularly called. Amid the growing use of AI, Gleeden's latest IPSOS research explored how Indians are using AI across their romantic lives—from flirting and dating advice to emotional counselling, sexual-health guidance and personal exploration. 

The study surveyed 1,500 respondents across cities spanning North, East, West and South India. It appears that increasingly matters of the heart appear to be getting an algorithmic consultation.

"Hey AI, what did they mean by 'K'?"

AI is rapidly turning into the relationship sounding board that never sleeps. According to the study, 64 per cent of Indians have used AI to help solve relationship problems, suggesting that conversations traditionally reserved for friends, partners or counsellors are increasingly making their way into chatbot windows. Then there's romance itself. 63 per cent have used AI as a romantic coach, turning to technology for assistance with flirting, dating profiles, text messages and first-date ideas. Apparently, Cupid has received a software update.

Roses are red, violets are blue, AI picked this gift for you

Even gifting is getting an algorithmic makeover. The study finds that 72 per cent of respondents have used AI to find gift ideas for their partners. It makes sense. Why spend three hours wandering through shopping apps wondering whether your partner needs another perfume when AI can generate 20 supposedly "thoughtful" suggestions in seconds? But beneath the humour sits an interesting behavioural shift. AI isn't merely being used to perform tasks anymore; people are inviting it into decisions involving affection, intimacy and emotional understanding.

The new relationship therapist has no waiting room

The boundaries get even more interesting when conversations become intimate. According to the findings, 60 per cent of Indians have used AI for sexual counselling or therapy, seeking information or guidance around intimacy and sexual concerns. The attraction isn't difficult to understand. An AI tool is available around the clock, doesn't visibly judge an awkward question and removes some of the discomfort people may experience discussing deeply personal subjects.

As Sybil Shiddell, country manager, Gleeden India, says, "AI is becoming more than a productivity tool; it is increasingly entering the emotional vocabulary of relationships. When 64 per cent of Indians are comfortable turning to AI for relationship problems, it tells us that people are looking for spaces where they can ask difficult questions without fear of judgement. However, technology should complement human communication, not replace it. Relationships ultimately thrive on empathy, honesty and conversations that no algorithm can have on our behalf."

Relationship status: Human, with AI assistance

AI may help write the perfect message, suggest an anniversary gift or provide perspective after an argument. What it cannot do is experience vulnerability, chemistry, forgiveness or love. Perhaps that's the real story behind the numbers. AI isn't necessarily replacing partners or relationships. It is becoming the place people visit before having the conversation with their partner. So, the next time someone says, "We need to talk", don't be surprised if they've already discussed it with AI first.

A study by the Indian dating app QuackQuack sheds light on just how deliberate and emotionally attuned today's singles have become when it comes to digital communication. From second-guessing a sarcastic remark to rephrasing a compliment that might read the wrong way, Indian singles who are on dating apps are thinking before they type and thinking again before they send. A quick re-read or deleting the entire paragraph has become the norm, with singles considering tone, timing, and the feelings of the person reading the message. 

QuackQuack's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, says, "This delete-before-sending habit shows exactly how much today's daters care about the comfort of their match. It is not just about impressing a match or putting the best foot forward; the trend is equally about being careful not to hurt any sentiments. That small pause might be nothing to others, but it shows respect, emotional awareness, and genuine interest."

The study was conducted by the app among 11,500 users between 18 and 35 years of age, from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities. Respondents were asked about their messaging habits and how often they pause and redo a message and the reasons behind it.

Intentional typing trend

The delete-before-sending trend is much more than putting your best foot forward, say, over 4,000 Indian dating singles between 25 and 35 years of age. They explained how the trend helps separate what they "want to say" from what they are "supposed to say". One of the reasons why the lazy, and filler-heavy "Hey, what's up?" is slowly disappearing from the dating vocabulary is because of people's intentional typing habits. Indian singles on the dating app suggested taking a look at this message and considering whether this alone can help move a conversation ahead and most said no. The trend pushes people to swap the generic with something more connected to their match's profile. 26-year-old Advika said, "Deleting and rewriting is not overthinking. It's a form of intentionality; we are taking the time to ensure that the message reflects our genuine interest."

How will this land?

The survey says 48 per cent of modern singles who are dating from metros and suburbs disclosed that editing messages or thinking before speaking is less about worrying how they will be judged and more about thinking how their words might make the other person feel. Some participants revealed that though they are usually very sarcastic, they tone it down while interacting with a new match because even a joke can come off as rude and hurt someone's feelings. Indian singles called this the "How will it land?" check: a pause to consider the other person's perspective. Ramesh, 28-year-old architect from Pune, shared, "The trend proves that digital dating is evolving beyond impressing a match to a more emotionally aware and cautious era."

Respect the conversation rule

One of the most positive findings of the survey was understanding the change in dating style, where Indian singles are seeing the whole thing as a shared experience instead of one-sided performance. About 39 per cent of women and 31 per cent of men from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities shared that before double texting or even sharing a vulnerability with their match, they thoroughly consider if the person is comfortable receiving the attention or information. These singles are not merely thinking about themselves, they are giving a second thought to their match too.

According to a survey by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce, over 63 per cent of previously married singles considering remarriage never skip three important questions before committing. 

The study highlights that previously married singles never rush into commitment based solely on emotional compatibility; they also focus on practical conversations that first-time dating individuals may not even consider until much later. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Unlike what most people think, second-chance seekers don't approach love with less hope than any first-time dater. However, they possess a much higher degree of emotional clarity, which can only come from lived experiences. They know that a perfect partner isn't just someone you are compatible with emotionally; it's someone with whom you can easily negotiate the realities of life, enough even to align the areas that seem slightly less compatible."

It was conducted among 10,000 previously married singles ranging in age between 28 and 45 years, from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities, to understand how second-chance seekers approach remarriage and what they consider absolutely essential before committing to marriage again.

Residues of the previous marriage

According to the survey, second-chance seekers are not afraid of uncomfortable conversations. One such topic, which 59 per cent of divorced and separated singles never skip before considering remarriage, is the residue of the previous marriage. This could mean an ex-spouse who keeps in touch, whether it is for the sake of the children or because they share the same social circle, or simply because of their shared history. The survey says 28 per cent of these singles said it could also mean habits they picked up from their previous marriage, from stonewalling to needing reassurance constantly, or misunderstanding harmless silence as indifference. While these might seem trivial, they need to be addressed early on. Manorama, 36 year old divorcee, said, "Experiences from the previous marriage continue to influence the second one. But what worked for one won't necessarily work for another. Each has its own rhythm. In my opinion, never skip this conversation, even if it feels uncomfortable."

Whose voice matters more?

It highlights 3,766 single parents on the journey to remarriage disclosed having a serious conversation about handling kids in a blended family. Jaydeep, 38, a father of two, explained, "I am in a serious relationship with someone currently and the first non-negotiable conversation we had was whose voice would carry more weight in my kids' lives. It is important to have clarity, understand the boundaries, and figure out how much your partner is willing to get involved in the important decisions about your kid." The survey says 6 in 10 single parents also discuss situations where the child has not warmed up to the new partner and the biological parent's reaction in a situation like that. 28% of previously married singles from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities also shared that remarriage can create competing loyalties, with the partner from the second marriage feeling caught in the middle; it is essential to discuss these loyalties beforehand.

What would you never repeat?

Nearly 55 per cent of divorced singles between 30 and 40 admitted that the most revealing conversation isn't about the future at all; it is about the non-negotiables created by the past experiences. Someone who has experienced total indifference in their previous marriage, usually needs consistent validation from their present partner, or a person who has faced financial secrecy would want total transparency in their next relationship. Participants call it data instead of emotional baggage and claim that it is one conversation no second-chance-seeking single should skip before committing.

Today, the problem may be far more ordinary: there simply aren’t enough hours in the day. Between deadlines, commutes, household responsibilities, social obligations and the constant buzz of smartphones, couples may be spending more time managing life than actually experiencing it together. 

Findings from Gleeden’s latest study on relationships, conducted in partnership with IPSOS point towards this growing “time poverty” as an increasingly important challenge for Indian couples. The research examines how Gen Z, Millennials and Gen X approach relationship satisfaction, expectations and infidelity.

Booked, busy and barely together

The numbers tell a revealing story. 33 per cent of respondents identify work-life balance and lack of quality time as a key relationship challenge, making it the biggest challenge highlighted in the study. In other words, the modern relationship may not always be competing with another person, it is competing with the calendar. The problem cuts across generations, although other pressures differ. The study finds that 33 per cent of Gen Z and 37 per cent of Gen X respondents struggle with unrealistic images of happy couples portrayed through movies and social media, while Millennials appear relatively less affected by this pressure.

The relationship is fine, except…

Perhaps the most interesting contradiction emerges when Indians are asked how happy they actually are. An overwhelming 94 per cent describe themselves as happy in their current relationships, while 84 per cent say they are sexually satisfied. Scratch beneath the surface, however, and the picture becomes more complicated. Only 25 per cent say nothing is missing from their relationship. Among the gaps respondents identify, 51 per cent cite emotional connection, 44 per cent better communication, 42 per cent excitement and thrill, and 38 per cent physical intimacy. That means a relationship can technically be “happy” and still leave people wanting more. In fact, the study notes that 75 per cent feel they lack at least one of emotional connection, communication, excitement or intimacy.

Forget the bedroom, check the screen time

Interestingly, sex itself does not emerge as the defining ingredient of a healthy relationship. None of the surveyed groups placed physical intimacy first when defining one. Instead, the findings suggest that digital distractions pose a more serious threat to relationship stability, while Millennials and Gen Z place greater importance on mutual trust and freedom, and Gen X shows a stronger desire for intimacy and emotional connection. This changes the conversation around relationship neglect. The issue may not necessarily be how much couples love one another, but whether they have enough uninterrupted attention left to express it.

When ‘We Time’ becomes a luxury

According to Sybil Shiddell, Country Manager Gleeden, India, “We often associate relationship dissatisfaction with dramatic issues such as incompatibility, intimacy or infidelity, but increasingly, the real challenge is much simpler: people are exhausted and stretched for time. When individuals struggle to create space for themselves, creating meaningful time for a partner becomes even harder. Emotional connection requires presence, conversation and curiosity, all of which suffer when couples are constantly rushing from one responsibility to another. The findings show that relationships today may not necessarily be facing a shortage of love, but a shortage of undistracted time.”

And that shortage can have consequences. 46% of respondents say they have frequently thought about having an affair, rising to 54 per cent among Gen X.

Love may need a calendar invite

The emerging relationship crisis, therefore, may be less about falling out of love and more about running out of bandwidth. When quality time becomes another item squeezed between meetings, errands and notifications, emotional distance can grow quietly. For modern Indian couples, protecting a relationship may increasingly mean protecting time itself, because sometimes the biggest third wheel in a relationship isn’t another person. It’s an overcrowded schedule.

A recent survey by Indian dating app QuackQuack, reveals new patterns, including the canon event, emotional layover, and dial-toning, that are quietly shaping the dating landscape.

The survey was conducted among over 10,000 active dating app users between the ages of 18 and 28 years, from metros, suburban, and rural regions of India. Participants were selected from diverse professional fields and in an equal division of male and female to ensure a comprehensive understanding of the trends. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Time's moving and it would be foolish to remain outdated about the dating patterns. Not all trends identified by Gen-Z are toxic; some might just be a right-of-passage kind of dating behaviour but still, identifying them makes it easier to understand what you are dealing with and handle the situation with much more ease."

The canon event

"I knew it wouldn't last, but I still went for it because it made me happy for a while." Over 3,945 respondents between 23 and 28 years of age said the same thing about at least one match. The survey shows that Gen-Z can sometimes value happiness more than the permanence of it. Nearly 4 in 10 women shared that they connected and dated with one match, knowing it would be a temporary commitment, only because they believed they needed to feel loved at that point in time, or the connection would teach them something valuable. The survey says that 27 per cent of men from Tier 1 and 2 cities revealed matching with someone completely opposite in nature to understand their own dealbreakers, and choosing passion over stability because they wanted to experience something worthwhile, even if it lasted for a short period.

Nivedita (25) from Delhi, said, "My canon event was matching, meeting, and dating this person who was of the exact opposite mentality and personality as mine. People ask me, then why did I choose him? I can only assume because it's important to date the wrong person to know what's right for you. In my case, I never made the same mistake again."

Emotional layover

One not-so-toxic but silently sad trend that the participants highlighted is the Emotional Layover. About 37 per cent of participants over 25 years explained that some matches temporarily occupied emotional space, especially during times of loneliness, vulnerability, major transitions and crises in life. These users explained that while it doesn't always impact negatively, the connection is usually just a temporary layover and since the period is full of vulnerability, there is always a chance of being taken advantage of.

The survey further highlights that 22 per cent of singles also said that the connection feels incredibly intimate, but it's important to identify the emotional layover pattern of dating to ensure that it does not become a habit and continues repeating every time they face a crisis. 5 in 10 app users disclosed that they genuinely cared for the match but needed only temporary shelter, while 4 in 10 people admitted knowingly becoming someone's emotional layover, realising how much they needed care at that time.

Dial-toning

Gen-Z has identified another lesser discussed behaviour where daters keep someone within their emotional reach but never completely giving in to the attraction. More than 45 per cent of dating singles from Delhi, Mumbai, Hyderabad, and Bengaluru said that dial-toning is gaining traction in mostly Tier 1 cities where life is busier. Instead of letting go of a match that did not work out very well, they keep a tiny signal of availability going on; it can be watching their social media stories, reacting to a post one random day, or replying with emojis.

The app's survery said 55 per cent of participants between 18 and 26 years admitted to dial-toning a match for months, but they also clarified ending the cycle as soon as they recognized what they were doing. Another 19 years of dating singles above 26 years also added that they have dial-toned a match because the timing to take the next step did not seem right and they were waiting for the right moment; this was their way of keeping the connection just warm enough, without overwhelming it.

But according to a survey by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce, over 9,000 users said that after their marriage failed, they realised that there are several myths attached to marriage and love that need to be questioned. They didn't turn cynical about love, but got more practical. Respondents said that one of their biggest realisations wasn't that love fails sometimes; rather, it was understanding that love comes with heavy responsibilities that no one talks about or prepares you for.

The study was conducted among 9684 divorced and separated singles from Bengaluru, Mumbai, Kolkata, Delhi, Hyderabad, Kochi, Chennai, Indore, Pune, and other tier 2 and 3 cities. The participants ranged in age between 28 and 45, and were chosen from various professional fields. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "The myth that everything gets magically solved by love is one of the leading reasons for marriages and relationships to fail. We found that through our survey. Most of our users said that they entered their first marriage expecting love to do all the heavy lifting. In the majority of cases, there were always some telltale signs, but they ignored them, believing the narrative that when love is strong, all else will eventually work out. But the second-chance seekers, with their lived experience, are far more aware and cautious in their approach to love and remarriage, and even giving someone a chance for interaction."

Unfinished version

One of the least discussed myths about marriage, according to 3,746 divorced women from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities, is entering into a commitment or marriage, assuming that adulthood and the marriage itself will complete whatever shortcomings in compatibility both partners had. The survey found that 8 out of 10 women said they were obsessed with the idea of a wedding, and being a perfect couple and forgot to check for emotional maturity, financial compatibility, healthy communication and even unresolved past issues. 

Following the marriage myth, participants shared trusting the process and believing all of these factors to align naturally after marriage. Anwita (33) said, "Only after my first marriage ended did I realise that marriage is not what completes a person, and sometimes love alone is not enough. So many factors need to be considered and worked on before making a lifetime commitment."

Loss of curiosity

Another significant issue came out of the survey; 43 per cent of divorced singles between 30 and 40 years of age revealed that certain beliefs about marriage, like thinking they know everything about their partner, lead to a loss of curiosity in the relationship. Conversations revolve around practicality and become purely logistical instead of exploratory. Abhilash, a 34-year-old divorcee from Indore, said, "With my ex, I forgot to ask her questions about herself. I believe that it played a role in my marriage ending. I kept relying on the outdated version of her, when she was changing, as is natural. It was that idea instilled in me that I know my partner that led to this communication issue."

Love as evidence

The survey found that 39 per cent of divorced singles mentioned a big challenge in their first marriage, calling it "love as evidence". They explained that it was the idea that everything is okay as long as they were in love; for instance, one respondent shared that they had to move to a different city for her husband's job, which led to her quitting her job. She shared that at the time, it felt like the right decision because they loved each other, but slowly, small decisions like these led to more resentment in the partner who had to compromise. Riddhima, a single mother from Delhi, clarified, "Now, after my divorce, I see love as a big part of marriage but not the whole picture. I understand now that love is neither evidence that all's well nor should it be used to reason with constant compromises that inevitably lead to sacrifices, resentment and silent scorekeeping."

To find out how the monsoon is proving to be an unexpected new dating filter for young singles, Indian dating app, QuackQuack, asked 9,583 users to share their experiences. While a smooth and planned date and uninterrupted interaction allow people to showcase their polished version, the rainy season introduces unpredictability and, with it, the unfiltered and raw side of people when they are constantly tested. The survey highlighted that 38 per cent of daters say the monsoon makes it harder for their matches to be performative and curative in their dating style.

The survey was conducted among Gen Z and Millennial singles from metropolitan and suburban areas of India. The study focuses on the young Indian singles surprisingly new ways of determining compatibility with a match. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Daters today really don't look at extraordinary moments to comprehend compatibility. Rather, they take note of situations that demand empathy, patience, emotional presence, and understanding. Monsoon makes for the perfect opportunity for singles to find out if their match truly has these qualities."

The "Plan B" personality

Millennial Indian singles highlighted that compatibility is more evident during inconvenient situations rather than when things are moving smoothly. Over 5,500 participants between 28 and 35 years of age shared that during this monsoon season, when their plans to meet in real life kept getting postponed, they clearly noticed a huge difference in reaction and action between their matches. While some lost interest after a while, others exhibited what they called a "Plan B" personality. These matches did not disappear when things got difficult; they worked around it and made the plan work.

For instance, Amisha from Kolkata said, "When heavy rain lashed the city, our plan to meet at a certain place was completely disrupted. In fact, the weekends were so rainy. So we compromised and went for virtual dates and then changed the venue, even though my match had to travel more than I did to reach the location. I guess his flexibility truly showed that the connection has potential. And if needed, I'd do the same."

Monsoon cancels performative dating

The disruptive rainy weather naturally strips away performative dating, says 53 per cent of GenZ daters from metros and suburbs. There is less scope for social media-worthy pictures and more scope for genuine interactions. 7 in 10 people also said that expensive outfits and posh cafes lose their importance when everyone has to arrive in w et shoes in the end. While waiting out the heavy rain, daters are getting the chance for spontaneous conversations and plans. According to the survey, the majority of daters enjoy these imperfect moments more than heavily curated dates. Jatin, 26, from Mumbai, joked, "Bad weather helps build good connections."

Reliability is romantic

Another important issue emerged in the survey: the modern daters view romance in a very different light than popularly believed. Almost 42 per cent of daters (23 per cent female and 19 per cent male) disclosed that a match who consistently checks if they reached home safely is remembered longer than a match who planned a grand date one day. It shows how young singles love consistency over surprises. Raya from Pune said, "During the rainy season, my match has been checking in to see if I got stuck somewhere, if I need any help, and this is not a one-off thing. He has been doing it since the beginning. It makes me feel that yes, this person is reliable and I can lean on him."

Unlike first-time daters and second-chance seekers who are child-free, single parents' choices in love are rarely driven by chemistry and butterflies alone. They are shaped by practicality and emotional responsibilities, and are silently yet heavily influenced by their children. 

A recent study by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce has found that single parents are changing the way relationships look. Instead of someone who fits the perfect romantic narrative, they are looking for a partner who can naturally fit into their life without either party having to compromise on their lifestyle. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Single parents are not looking for a rescuer; they know how to rebuild their life even without a partner. What we have understood from observing our users is that they want a partner who is understanding and does not demand to be their priority from the outset; a partner who understands that for a parent, their children will always come first. The concept of remarriage for them is less about starting over and more about growing stronger together."

The survey was conducted among 7659 single parents on the app from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities, between the ages of 30 and 45. The findings show that these singles are a lot more detailed in their preferences for a partner than child-free users.

Compatible parenting style

Over 50 per cent of single parents from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities shared that they care more about parenting style compatibility than chemistry. Important questions like how they handle disagreement with children, whether they will respect each other's parenting style in case there are some differences, and more are discussed early in the interaction. These subjects are more important to a single parent seeking love than matching hobbies and shared interests. Avneet (33), a mother of a 5-year-old, explains, "I am not saying that I don't care if I have chemistry with a match; what I want people to understand is that during the initial days, everyone has chemistry. But parenting conflict is permanent. That needs to be understood first. At least I definitely do that before emotionally investing in a match."

Not just children, extended families shape choices too

Single parents are slowly opening up about their children's influence on their matching style, but the recent survey sheds light on another quiet challenge for these singles: the extended families. Unlike child-free divorced, separated, and widowed individuals, almost 5630 single parents revealed that they are bound to stay in touch with their ex's side of the family for their child's sake. They disclosed that former in-laws, older relatives, and extended families tend to create emotional pressure against remarriage. Abhay, a single dad from Pune, says, "Kids adapt, especially when there's open and honest communication between a parent and kids. But the people who carry taboos and values that are against remarriage or love, in general, are much harder to convince."

Respect the rhythm

About 42 per cent of single parents over 35 years of age say they specifically connect and move things forward with matches who respect the existing rhythm of their lives and understand the importance of the same for a child's mental health. The survey found that 7 out of 10 single mothers explained that men who are flexible around their existing routine and handle frequently cancelled plans with calmness and understanding are far more desirable than those who focus only on surprises and grand gestures of romance. While the latter is appreciated, as a parent, grand gestures are not always a welcome surprise, especially if they disrupt their child's routine. For instance, Malini (36) said, "I have a 12 year old child. Suddenly, if my partner plans a romantic getaway or even a date, I won't be able to accommodate that into my kid's schedule. A match who understands and respects that is who I would want to associate with; or else it would not be fair to them or me."

According to a new study by Indian dating app, QuackQuack, Indian singles who are dating are becoming increasingly wary of matches that come off as "performative" in their dating style. The survey was conducted among 10,384 active daters between the ages of 22 and 35 who had used dating apps for over a year. Participants were selected from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities and from different professional fields for a more comprehensive understanding of the new trend and awareness among the young users.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Our users, especially those using the platform for a longer period, seem a bit more aware of their match's performative behavior. They have an instinct for spotting interactions that feel like a script rather than being genuine."

Customer service romance

The survey said that 36 per cent of dating app users from Tier 1 and 2 cities said that they are most uncomfortable with matches that interact in the most professionally curated manner. Many respondents shared that when a conversation starts resembling hospitality instead of chemistry, they become hyperaware. Jhelum from New Delhi said, "Some people know just the 'right' thing to say; while it sounds really good, it is also a bit performative. I mean, every conversation moves in the same progression, the same flow, and you just know there is something off." According to the survey, women especially find it emotionally distancing because the interaction does not feel spontaneous.

Boyfriend template

It also shows that 38 per cent of women over 25 years drew attention to social media's influence on dating behavior. These women claimed that some matches appear to perform personalities inspired by relationship content on social media. They also explained that it is not always a bad thing for people to be inspired by positive content and try to become a better version of themselves, but the problem arises when they cannot keep up with the character and suddenly come back to their authentic selves. Krishvi (28), said, "It's like I am falling for one person, with a certain type of personality and after a few months, when the real person starts peeking through the facade, I don't know who this person is anymore. The match that I am putting genuine effort into will start falling apart because the other person was performing instead of showing their real selves. Irony is, I might have liked their real personality too had they not done this "back and forth" act."

Love for the audience

One lesser-discussed concern among young daters, online and in real life, is their partner acting differently when other people are watching. The survey shows that 29 per cent of daters from Tier 1 and 2 cities explained the reason they are hyper aware of performative behavior is to avoid committing to someone who puts on a show for the audience and acts entirely different when no one is watching. These Indian dating singles shared fears like their partner being overly attentive in public, only to be indifferent in private. Majority of the participants claimed that genuine connections are built in quiet private moments.

Rehearsed vulnerability

An interesting trend around vulnerability shows 9 in 10 daters being wary of rehearsed vulnerability. They revealed becoming slightly skeptical when their match shares deeply personal information very early in the interaction, especially when it is perfectly articulated with amazing storytelling skills. While emotional openness is very attractive for most daters, especially women between 25 and 35 years, when a vulnerable and difficult life experience is expressed with excessive polish, as if it is almost practiced, they struggle to distinguish between genuine and performative for the sake of being relatable.

The latest study conducted by IPSOS for Gleeden reveals that while Indians continue to value commitment and companionship, emotional fulfillment remains elusive for a significant section of the population.

The nationwide survey, conducted among 1,510 respondents across India's major cities, found that 92% of Indians report being happy in their current relationships, while 57% admit they experience loneliness, highlighting a growing disconnect between perceived relationship satisfaction and emotional well-being. The findings suggest that happiness and companionship are no longer synonymous, with many individuals feeling emotionally isolated despite sharing their lives with a partner.

The Happiness Paradox: Together, Yet Alone
The study reveals that relationships today are increasingly being measured not just by stability but by emotional depth. While 84% of respondents say they are sexually satisfied, only 25% believe nothing is missing from their relationship, indicating that emotional needs often remain unmet even in otherwise fulfilling partnerships. Emotional connection emerged as the single biggest missing element, cited by 51% of respondents, followed by better communication (44%), excitement and thrill (42%), and physical intimacy (38%). These findings suggest that modern relationships are less likely to fail because of a lack of commitment and more because of the absence of meaningful emotional engagement.

Love Is No Longer Enough
The paradox becomes even more evident when examining how Indians define a healthy relationship. Trust and transparency (39%) remain the most important pillars, followed closely by emotional connection (35%), while physical intimacy ranks much lower. Across generations, exclusivity continues to dominate as the preferred relationship model, with a majority viewing monogamy as the foundation of a healthy partnership. However, expectations from relationships have evolved beyond loyalty alone, with emotional availability and mutual understanding becoming equally critical.

Busy Schedules, Empty Conversations
Modern lifestyles appear to be widening this emotional gap. The survey identifies work-life imbalance and lack of quality time (33%) as the biggest challenge couples face today, followed by unrealistic expectations created by movies and social media (29%). Emotional disconnect with a partner affects 14% of respondents, while digital distractions and external temptations continue to influence relationship dynamics. The findings underline that despite spending more time connected digitally, many couples are finding it increasingly difficult to connect emotionally.

When Hearts Wander Before People Do
Perhaps the most striking insight is that emotional dissatisfaction often translates into curiosity beyond the relationship. Nearly 46% of respondents admit they frequently think about exploring connections outside their relationship, with the proportion rising to 54% among Gen X respondents. While these thoughts do not necessarily translate into action, they reinforce the emotional vacuum many individuals experience despite describing themselves as happy partners.

Cheating Isn't Just Physical Anymore
The research also highlights changing perceptions around fidelity. Half of the respondents believe emotional cheating is more hurtful than physical infidelity, reflecting how emotional exclusivity is becoming more valuable than ever before. At the same time, 64% admit they have been emotionally or physically unfaithful at some point, although overall infidelity has declined by 16% compared to 2023, suggesting that while extra-relational experiences continue to exist, attitudes toward commitment and accountability are also evolving.

Forgiveness Has More Followers Than Breakups
Interestingly, Indians are not entirely unforgiving. Nearly 62% say they would forgive a partner's infidelity if it was a one-time mistake and genuinely regretted, while 45% believe infidelity can sometimes reignite passion in a struggling relationship. Yet, 47% still consider infidelity a dealbreaker, demonstrating the complex and often conflicting attitudes people hold towards love, loyalty, and second chances.

Commenting on the findings, Sybil Shiddell, Country Manager, Gleeden India, said, "The findings reveal that relationship happiness and emotional fulfillment are no longer the same thing. Many couples continue to share their lives, responsibilities and routines, yet silently struggle with loneliness because their emotional needs remain unaddressed. Modern relationships require far more than commitment, they demand communication, vulnerability and genuine emotional presence. As conversations around mental well-being and relationships become more open, it is important to recognize that feeling lonely while being in a relationship is far more common than many people realize. Understanding this emotional gap is the first step towards building healthier, more fulfilling partnerships."

The Real Relationship Status? It's Complicated
The Gleeden-IPSOS study paints the picture of an India where relationships are becoming increasingly nuanced. People continue to believe in love, trust, and long-term commitment, but they are also demanding deeper emotional intimacy than previ

Everyone talks about the courage and endurance of divorced and separated individuals who dare to love again, but there are still many hidden challenges that silently affect these people during their journey to a second chance. 

Indian matchmaking app for previously married singles, Rebounce, studied 9,384 users to understand these lesser-discussed issues faced by divorced and separated singles. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "Our findings suggest that the biggest challenge is not finding love again, but rather the fact that many of the previously married singles have forgotten how to get started, or express affection, or even accept love. Many forgotten what they desired once and how they wanted to be loved; every sign of affection can send them running away because many believe they don't deserve it."

The survey was conducted from April to June 2026, among divorced and separated singles between the ages of 30 and 45, from Tier 1, 2, and 3 Indian cities. Respondents spoke about quiet emotional scars that might not seem dramatic but affect them regularly.

"Who am I?" outside the marriage

What seems like an issue previously married women are more prone to, "who am I outside the marriage?", topped as one of the hidden but significant challenges faced. Nearly 47 per cent of divorced women above 35 shared that after years of being a spouse, they struggled seeing themselves as an individual, instead of a part of their marriage. Many said they have made all their decisions as "we," instead of "me." Suddenly seeking love a second time did not feel as intimidating as rediscovering their individual hobbies, interests, thought process, and even conversations that did not revolve around their divorce and married life.

Rusty at romance

The survey said 5,432 participants shared that though they gathered the courage to join a matchmaking app to give love a second chance, they feel quite rusty at romance. 4 out of 10 women shared that they feel shyer to make the first move now than when they were in their 20s. 33 per cent of men from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities admitted that, whether it is flirting, complimenting their match, or even planning a meetup, they constantly fear falling short and coming off as awkward and emotionally inexperienced. Abhay (33) from Jhansi, said, "It's ironic that someone who has already been in love, was married for three years, feels less confident than someone who just entered the dating world. I guess it's the experience we already have, the consequences we already faced, and the lesson we always keep thinking 'we should have learned' that has this effect."

Over-explaining

Over 5,500 previously married singles between 30 and 40 years disclosed that they overexplain themselves.The participants said that even when their match does not judge them or ask about their past, they tend to clarify their part in the divorce because they are so used to being villainized by society for giving up on their marriage. At the same time, they fear that sharing too much about their past might scare away a potential match, while sharing too little might make them seem dishonest. Isha, a single mother from Delhi, said, "It was so exhausting in the beginning when I just started this journey. I would constantly tell all my matches about all that I had to endure and justify my choice to get divorced. Only later did I realise that they were not judging me; I was just conditioned to judge and question myself."

In a survey by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce, the majority of the previously married singles shared that their decision to remarry is primarily driven by the feeling of emotional safety with a match. The mindset makes the second-chance seekers' approach to love quite different from that of first-time daters. These singles are not chasing chemistry and leaving things up to fate; they want emotional security, consistency, predictability, and, above all, peace.

The study was conducted among 9,475 divorced and separated singles using matchmaking and matrimony apps seeking a second chance between April and June 2026. Participants ranged in age from 28 to 45, and belonged to metros, suburbs, and rural regions. The study indicates that with remarriages becoming more common among Indians, emotional safety may soon become the biggest indicator of success in a long-term relationship.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "We might think that after getting a divorce, when people look for a second chance, all they do is ensure that they don't fall for the same qualities as their ex-spouse. That's not true; people don't just redefine their type. Instead, they add on to the list and give more priority to things they didn't bother about in their past relationship. Emotional safety has topped as the one thing that almost all divorced singles have added to their checklist."

Freedom to disagree

Conflict, according to 8 in 10 divorced and separated singles from Tier 1 and 2 cities, is not concerning anymore. In fact, these singles revealed gauging potential partners by their way of handling conflicts. Nearly 47 per cent of participants agreed that they feel that a connection has long-term potential when they can disagree with their partner freely, without worrying about being punished with stonewalling, silent treatment, or hurting their partner's ego. Ajay Verma, divorced for two years, from Delhi, said, "For me fights are not an issue; couples will fight, but being able to disagree with my partner during a fight, or being able to let the argument go after one point, that's what matters. Suppressing opinions is never healthy for a marriage."

Love is measured by predictability

The survey suggests that previously married singles are redefining attraction. One of the significant trends picked up among the divorced singles is their inclination toward predictable connections. Nearly 43 per cent of previously married men and women between 30 and 40 years clarified that they are more attracted to people whose behavior and effort remain constant over time. While many respondents noted that their younger selves were drawn to mystery and spontaneity, their lived experience has made them appreciate predictability. Anushka (39) said, "The 25-year-old Anushka would say predictability is so boring, but trust me, my present self knows that having a predictable partner is a blessing. Following through promises and regular communication, that's what makes a marriage work."

The "after interaction" feeling

One interesting finding from the survey data highlighted how divorced singles are very meticulously aware of every interaction with a match and the entire matchmaking process. They not only care about the conversations, but 37 per cent also mentioned that they analyse how the interaction left them feeling after. 29 per cent of women said that instead of asking, "Do I like this person?" they look into factors like whether the conversation made them feel lighter, whether they were able to be themselves, if they felt respected, heard, or if they felt emotionally drained.

Gen Z has taken this a step further and cracked the code; according to a recent survey by QuackQuack, Indian singles between 22 and 27 years of age believe a person's "relationship resume" carries more weight than their perfectly curated dating profile when choosing the right match. 

What is a 'Relationship Resume'?

Survey participants explained that, unlike the traditional expectation of couples revealing the number of past relationships, a relationship resume focuses less on counting exes and more on understanding the lessons learnt and the emotional patterns of the person within a relationship. Over 55 per cent of Gen-Z daters revealed that they care more about how their match handled their past relationship than the number of relationships they have had. Today's young daters see romantic history not as baggage but as lived experience.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, added, "We rarely see matches discussing the number of exes they have had or judging each other based on that. But we do see awareness around emotional patterns during each other's previous relationships; they understand that match's romantic history speaks about emotional maturity, communication style, conflict management skills, and it can also reveal hidden personality issues."

The dating surveyed 9,847 Gen Z users from Delhi, Mumbai, Bengaluru, Chennai, Hyderabad, Kolkata, Kochi, Calicut, Ahmedabad, Pune, Indore, and more Tier-3 cities. The survey was conducted from April to June in 2026 through voluntary responses.

Conflict transcript

One of the study's strongest findings is the "conflict transcript" trend. Around 41 per cent of daters over 25 years of age said they are interested in learning how their match handled arguments in their past relationship. They revealed that instead of directly asking, "Why did your relationship end?" they enquire who handled difficult conversations better, who was more confrontational, who was the first to apologize, and what usually happened after arguments. Anwesha, a 26-year-old software engineer from Pune, explained, "When I ask these questions to my match, I look out for two things: One, are they putting all the blame on their ex and saying they put in all the effort? And two, are they avoiding the topic of their past relationship entirely? For me, these are the two red flags I am cautious about."

Closure and post-breakup behaviour

The survey says that 8 out of 10 participants from Tier 1 and 2 cities admitted that they closely observe if their match speaks about their past relationships with emotional balance. Over 44 per cent of women and 39 per cent of men shared that they become cautious if someone labels their ex as "crazy" or "the toxic one." It shows that the person is not ready to take any accountability and does not have emotional maturity needed for introspection and accepting their own flaws.

Nearly 51 per cent of the respondents also mentioned that "closure" is now a part of their evaluation process. They pay attention to whether a person has emotionally processed their breakup, or if they are trying to jump into a new relationship to substitute for one that got away.

Behavioural upgrade

Another fascinating finding shows that young daters are interested in the evidence of post-breakup behavioural upgrades in their matches. 36 per cent of daters between 23 and 27 years of age explained that hearing someone share how they have changed since their last relationship, or how they have improved themselves after a breakup, understanding that they were the one falling short in the last relationship, makes them significantly more interested in that person. Whether it is learning better ways to communicate, maintaining healthy boundaries, or working on their insecurities, a behavioural upgrade is a desirable quality in a match, according to nearly 6 out of 10 dating app users.

Indian dating app happn surveyed over 3,000 users in India to understand the place football holds in their dating lives this season. The results point to a clear shift: far from competing with romance, football is becoming part of how Indian singles meet, bond and flirt, turning late-night kick-offs into date nights, and football opinions into the newest compatibility cue.

India’s singles are playing extra time for love

When it comes to losing sleep over a 3 am kick-off, India’s singles have a clear answer: it depends on who’s next to them on the couch. 47 per cent said they’d stay up for a long-term partner, but a striking 44 per cent said they’d do the same for a new crush they’re excited about, proof that early-stage romance is now nearly as strong a motivator as commitment when football is on the line.

That enthusiasm carries straight through to the dating app itself. Asked how they’d respond if their crush invited them to watch a late-night match as a date, 93 per cent of respondents said they wouldn’t turn it down outright, 32 per cent would say yes immediately, and another 34 per cent would say yes depending on the person. Just 7 per cent called it a hard no.

Singles already know what that date should look like: 40 per cent would invite their crush over to watch on the couch, and another 40 per cent are picturing a full themed night in with pizza and beers, leaving solo virtual watch parties (12 per cent) and group viewings with friends (7 per cent) well behind.

Team colours don’t decide the final score

Football compatibility matters to Indian singles who are dating, but it isn’t a hard requirement. While a fraction said supporting the same team is “very important” when dating someone, rival loyalties are far from a red flag for most: 53 per cent said discovering their crush supports their biggest rival makes things “more interesting,” and a further 31 per cent don’t mind at all — meaning more than 8 in 10 singles treat a rivalry as a spark, not a setback.

Even after a tough loss, India’s singles know how to show up for their crush: 47 per cent said they’d send comfort food and supportive messages if their crush’s favourite team got knocked out of the tournament, well ahead of friendly banter (30per cent) or giving them space (12 per cent).

A distracted crush is forgiven, a passionate one is a green flag

Even during football games, distractions don’t faze India’s singles much. Discovering a crush is a passionate football fan tends to work in their favour: 28 per cent call it an immediate green flag and another 26 per cent see it as a positive (if not a deciding factor), meaning over half of India’s singles respond warmly to football passion.

Football fans on the app are also green flags: When it comes to what’s genuinely attractive, expertise isn’t the winning move, 28per cent said being new to football but genuinely interested is the most appealing trait, narrowly ahead of knowing the game well without showing off (26 per cent) followed by being passionate and emotionally invested (22 per cent).

Permissionless joy

One lesser-discussed fact about second-chance seekers is their constant need to obtain permission from the world and, more importantly, their subconscious, to feel happy. However, the study shows a shift in this trend; more than 54% of previously married singles from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities admitted that they are neither waiting for life to feel "completely settled" nor looking at society's approval to love again and experience happiness. Almost 7 out of 10 of these participants shared that just a few years back, they strongly believed that they had to achieve complete emotional recovery from their past relationship, total financial stability, and have their family's acceptance before moving forward with their journey for a second chance. But it all changed once they realised healing is not linear and it is okay for things to move in parallel. Healing and happiness can coexist, and genuine connections don't necessarily only come to those who have their lives sorted.

Losing grip of guilt

Whether it is survivor's guilt or the guilt of moving on with life, guilt has always had a strong grip on previously married singles. According to the survey, it is particularly strong among widowed individuals and single parents. But slowly, people are pulling themselves out of it. About 39% of single mothers and 26% of single fathers participating in the survey disclosed feeling very guilty for being excited about someone new. But they recognized that pattern and are consistently working on it to allow themselves to feel happiness without shame. 33% of widowed individuals in the survey admitted that if they matched with someone compatible and things started moving ahead well, they would suddenly be hit with guilt so hard that they would sever contact with the match. "Enjoying their company felt like disrespecting the past," said Puja (34). However, the mentality is gradually changing. These singles also mentioned that they now understand that moving forward with someone new doesn't mean they are replacing or forgetting history. They are slowly allowing themselves to live outside of the identity that they once carried.

Performance-based romance is fading

Over 45 per cent of respondents over 35 years of age said they don't feel the need to make their relationships look perfect or successful for outsiders and even for themselves. Anita (38) from Delhi, said, "During my first marriage, even though I knew how messed up things were, I performed my best to ensure others would see it as the perfect marriage. But what happened in the end? So this time around, I don't bother much about the optics. And it's so freeing. Best part is that I don't stay in situations any longer than I have to just because I am afraid of social embarrassment."

The study was conducted among 10,293 active users between the ages of 22 and 27, from February to June 2026. Participants were chosen from metros, suburbs, and rural regions to gain a comprehensive understanding of the changing thinking style.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "For years, we have told ourselves that every match should amount to something meaningful or else the time spent cannot be justified. But for Gen-Zs, human connections are not like business transactions, and they don't put extra pressure on themselves like their predecessors. They allow connections to impact them without forcing permanence. In a way, this generation has a healthier understanding of relationships. They get that sometimes connections work out simply because they existed at the right time, and some don't just because the timing wasn't in favour."

Proof of possibility

About 41 per cent of Gen-Z singles over 25 years of age, shared that some matches serve a bigger purpose than leading to a relationship; they restore faith in love. They are proof that it is possible to connect with someone even after life has thrown many curveballs. Over 6,000 participants said that after periods of loneliness, heartbreak, and being emotionally exhausted from not finding the right person, even a brief connection that genuinely left a positive impression on them becomes a significant part of their dating journey. It is a reminder that there are kind people out there, and more importantly, singles who responded to the survey said that these connections prove that they are not so hard to love, as some of their previous experiences led them to believe. Gen-Z has wrongly been accused of being commitment-phobic, but the study tells a completely different story. This generation is preserving hope, even if it is in smaller doses.

Borrowed confidence is a valued outcome

About 31 per cent of men and 26 per cent of women from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities said that some matches help them become a better version of themselves, and some prepare them for the right match. They further clarified that it is not about "fixing" but exposing a new side of their personality. Jason from Delhi joked, "With one match I briefly interacted with, I realised that I have good flirting skills. I always assumed that my conversation skills were weak, but the realisation that I can, indeed, flirt well, boosted my confidence. I only have that match to thank for creating a safe environment for me to explore that side of me." For the young generation of dating singles, confidence is a worthwhile takeaway, even if a connection doesn't work out in the end.

Incomplete endings are okay

Gen-Z singles are not obsessed with results. They are not rushing to commit. Their slow-paced approach allows them to cherish even the fleeting connections, without being burdened by the idea of "I must settle down soon". For more than 5,475 dating app users between 22 and 26 years of age, dating is not just about finding a relationship; it is about collecting stories. They have become comfortable with incomplete endings. 5 out of 10 participants said they are okay even if there is no explanation for why a compatible match faded away in the end. This generation of singles dating is finally normalising the idea that incomplete stories don't mean failure.

According to a Gleeden’s survey conducted in partnership with IPSOS in late February 2026, AI is becoming an increasingly popular source of information, reflection, and guidance on matters ranging from intimacy and emotional well-being to dating and relationship management. The findings reveal a significant shift in how people approach personal conversations, particularly those they may hesitate to have in their everyday lives.

The survey, conducted across 12 Tier-1 and Tier-2 cities in India, found that 66 per cent of respondents have used conversational AI tools to learn about sexual health and education, while 60 per cent have sought guidance for personal sexual concerns. More than half (55 per cent) have used AI to discuss intimate questions, and 58 per cent have turned to it for advice on improving romantic and intimate experiences.

A space without judgment

What makes AI so appealing in matters of the heart? The answer may lie in the privacy it offers. Unlike conversations with family or friends, where one typically has to worry about being embarrassed or having people make assumptions about them as a result of talking about being in love, using AI provides a safe space for users to ask their questions without any fear of judgement. This type of space has been found to be valuable in a society where the discussion around relationships and intimacy is continuing to evolve.

The interesting part about this trend is that, given the fact that modern dating is becoming more and more focused on both discretion and privacy, as such lots of people are trying to find ways to help them better understand themselves so they can open up to other people. Therefore, AI is beginning to act as a bridge between curiosity and confidence; allowing users to explore sensitive topics at their speed.

Going from an information tool to a relationship companion

The survey results also indicated that AI is gradually playing an important role in relationship management. Participants reported using AI to navigate common concerns around dating/relationships: to help overcome communication issues or understand an emotional situation and gain perspective prior to having a difficult conversation. In addition to these findings, it appears that AI is not replacing human connections, but instead is filling a need for digital confidentiality; many users view AI as a sounding board or neutral voice to help them sort through their thoughts and see different perspectives. As a result, AI is moving further away from the role of being a technological tool and closer toward becoming a digital confidant for individuals to turn to when seeking clarity.

Interestingly, it appears that men are somewhat more willing to seek out this trend than women. The survey found that 40 per cent of men had looked for relationship advice from AI within the previous 12 months, while 35 per cent of women had done so.

A new chapter in modern relationships

Younger generations are at the forefront of adopting AI technology, although many of the older generations are becoming interested in how A.I. can provide assistance with developing relationships and providing guidance on personal matters. According to Sybil Shiddell, Country Manager of Gleeden India, "The results of this survey indicate that there is a growing demand for places where we can find support without being judged. While A.I. provides us with more ways to receive information about ourselves and have a moment of self-reflection, it also shows that people are now more concerned about the need for their private life to remain private and that discretion is very important with respect to modern relationships. People want to use A.I. to help them better understand their feelings, clarify their thoughts and feel more confident to move forward in their personal lives."

AI is not only helping us become more productive or efficient in our everyday lives, but it is also becoming a trusted resource as a companion for some of our most meaningful conversations, with a goal of providing perspective and privacy in addition to lending an ear to us when we need one.

A survey by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce shows that while single parents don't necessarily find their children as an obstacle to romance, their romantic choices and decisions are heavily influenced by their children's acceptance and opinions. 

Nearly 47 per cent of single mothers and single fathers in the survey shared that kids might not be directly involved in the matchmaking process. Still, their presence quietly shapes who they choose, how they handle their love life, and whether they allow themselves to embrace love completely. 

The study was conducted among 8576 single parents seeking a second chance at love after divorce or the loss of a spouse. Participants ranged in age between 28 and 50, and came from metros, suburbs, and smaller Indian cities. The survey shows that single parents carry emotional responsibilities that are rarely discussed. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, added, "They don't just balance love and parenting. It's more like a constant emotional negotiation, whether it is okay to have a personal life of their own, whether their love for someone else will take away from their love for their children. Every single decision goes through multiple checkpoints. For single parents, it's not just about finding the right person for themselves; it's also about finding the right ecosystem that's safe, stable, and sustainable for their children as well as themselves."

Will my happiness disrupt their stability?

One of the most significant findings of the survey remains how single parents fear that their happiness might disrupt the stability they have worked so hard to create around their children. The survey says 51 per cent of single mothers and 48 per cent of single dads revealed they have, at least once, given up on a promising connection because the timing was not great for their children or they were worried introducing a new person might create an imbalance in their set routine. What's more interesting is that 7 out of 10 parents disclosed that the reaction is not triggered by resistance from their children, but rather a hidden fear rooted deep in themselves. However, 33 per cent of single parents from metros and suburbs said they also pick up on subtle cues in their kids, like if they go quiet, or ask more questions about their whereabouts, and reconsider their romantic decisions. Many also admitted that they have often overanalysed harmless reactions as well.

Habit of personality editing

The study uncovered one lesser-known trend among the single parents looking for love: they unintentionally "edit" themselves. Nearly 49 per cent of the participants between 30 and 45 years of age shared that they sometimes unknowingly suppress parts of their personality from a match because they no longer see themselves as just an individual, but a representative of their family. Ragini (35) from Mumbai said, "Since I am a single mom, I tend to match with single dads only because we'll probably understand the situation better. So, I have noticed that I fear coming off too spontaneous or adventurous while interacting with them, in case they think that I am an irresponsible mom or that connecting with me might be bad for their child. It's very unintentional and honestly, I know no one will think that way, but this is something that many single parents do."

Happiness also brings guilt

The survey says 41 per cent of single parents from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities said that guilt peaks during the happiest moments of their love lives. 6 out of 10 of them said they fear their children might assume that their other parent is being deliberately substituted by this new person. While 36 per cent of the participants explained that prioritising their own happiness can feel selfish as a parent, and fear that their love and care for their child might be affected. 4734 respondents revealed that they downplay their excitement to ensure that their kids don't feel "replaced".

A new survey by Indian dating app, QuackQuack, reveals that approximately 53 per cent of Indian singles from metros and smaller cities prefer "fewer but meaningful" romantic experiences, and more than 38 per cent of participants reported avoiding connections that feel performative.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "What we are seeing now is not a decline in romantic expectations. Users have realized what truly matters; they want genuine commitment and emotional intimacy, which doesn't require grand displays. This trend shows the shift in how young daters today measure romance."

The survey was conducted among 9374 active users between 24 and 35, from metros, suburbs, and rural regions of India. The study analysed the changing intent of romance, relationship expectations, and dating behaviour across India.

'Romantic Minimalism' Vs 'Lowering Expectations'

The survey shows that Indian singles believe the term 'Romantic Minimalism' is often misunderstood. 41 per cent of participants between 25 and 30 years of age, clarified that the trend is not about settling for less; on the contrary, it is about changing your standards and being selective about what truly matters in building a healthy and sustainable connection. 3785 respondents shared that their form of romantic minimalism is checking depth over display. Pooja (27) said, "When I was younger, gifts and constant validation were enough to make me happy. But now, I am more focused on reliability, consistency in effort, whether our life goals align, and such stuff. I mean, I am over the relationship optics."

Over 22 per cent of Indian singles who are actively dating in metros mentioned burnout from their fast-paced life as one of the prime reasons for romantic minimalism. Adding mixed signals, inconsistency in communication, love bombing one day and ghosting the other, to an already hectic life, never leads to a healthy connection.

Small gestures over grandeur

The study highlighted the importance of small but regular gestures in modern dating. 55 per cent of female participants shared that regular check-ins mean a lot more to them than sudden grand dates that end with no follow-up. Similarly, 42 per cent of men between 30 and 35 years old confessed that they enjoy spending quality time together more than receiving expensive gifts.

The survey showed that 5,637 dating singles from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities also shared that a match that remembers small details about them is much more desirable than someone whose love language is a grand display of love, but with no consideration for what the person sitting across them actually prefers. Romantic Minimalism is all about quiet effort; it requires time and work to figure out the tiny things that are unique to you and use those to curate the romantic journey.

Why the 'Sudden Resonance'?

The app's insight and survey show that the trend is suddenly picking up speed in 2026, and it points to a changing relationship priority. The study hints that economic pressure, mental health awareness, and a busy schedule are mostly the root causes of this rise. 6 out of 10 Indian dating singles above 27 years of age said they don't associate a good date with expensive spending anymore. The emphasis is more on mutual support and shared experience. Romantic minimalism also allows daters to focus on a stable relationship over an emotionally charged, short connection.

However, a recent study by India matchmaking app Rebounce shows that every lesson from a previously married single's lived experience is not all baggage; some are wisdom earned the hard way. Past experience affects people in surprisingly different ways, and this survey proves it. 

While 59 per cent of the survey participants revealed they emerged with more emotional intelligence and resilience, 41 per cent disclosed being more guarded, cautious, and taking their time to trust. 

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "Previously married individuals don't automatically come with an extra set of baggage. For many users, we see that they have used their experience as a turning point in their lives. They are definitely more emotionally intelligent than first-time daters; yes, there's some understandable fear and hesitation too, but that really helps them be more emotionally aware and avoid repeating similar mistakes, or recognise toxic patterns and break them sooner. Moreover, this thing that we call baggage has actually helped second-chance seekers focus on sustainable, healthy relationships over fleeting chemistry people mistake as love."

The study was conducted from April 2026 to June 2026, among 12359 registered users of the app. Participants ranged in age between 28 and 45, and were randomly selected from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities for a comprehensive and overall understanding of the weight of lived experience on previously married singles looking to remarry or find love again.

Emotionally informed, not emotionally damaged

According to 44 per cent of respondents, the experience they carry from their previous marriage helped them understand what they want in their ideal partner. Instead of viewing their last marriage as a failure, they think of it more as a valuable lesson. Nisha (31) from Delhi says, "I never knew that having good conflict resolution skills would be one of the non-negotiables for me when I think of an ideal partner. For me and my ex, every conflict blew up into a huge issue. But now I know that I want a partner who can handle it calmly."

8 out of 10 divorced and separated singles are also seen asking deeper questions, like financial standings, family situations, their take on children and parenting style, much earlier in the connection. The previously married singles and their so-called "baggage" have replaced idealism with clarity. The goal now is proper alignment, not absolute perfection.

Trust is an issue

It is not mandatory for all to come out of a difficult situation stronger than before. Some break, but the important part is that they heal in time too. The same goes for 37 per cent of divorced and separated singles between 28 and 38 years of age. These respondents shared that trust is still an issue for them because of how their marriage ended. They clarified that this doesn't necessarily manifest as insecurity or jealousy. Sometimes it is much more subtle, like taking longer to open up, constantly gearing up for disappointment, and never allowing themselves to become completely emotionally invested. 7 out of 10 said they have become a lot more observant; they pay closer attention to small details like reply speed, consistency, and emotional patterns. While the "defensive approach" can slow down the pace of the connection, it is not necessarily a bad tehing. It can also help avoid making the same mistakes or being overwhelmed and opting out. The slower pace also helps these singles build confidence and let their guards down completely when the time is finally right.

Healing compatibility

Emotional healing has emerged as one of the most desirable traits among the previously married singles. 58 per cent of the participants from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities disclosed preferring a partner who is actively working on or has worked through their past issues. Nearly half of the respondents revealed that they are okay with their matches carrying baggage, as long as, in terms of healing, both are compatible and moving forward instead of clinging to the past.

A recent survey by Indian dating app QuackQuack, reveals that modern daters actively use personality types to identify potential matches, making "energy compatibility" The trend of the year so far.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "Self-awareness has been a big part of modern dating, and we have repeatedly said that. This energy compatibility is also a branch of that. The labels sound playful and meme-like, but they are real indicators of one's personality, and in the pretext of fun, people are actually making very important and well-thought-out choices. The trend is not just about personality type; it also shows a significant shift in matching patterns. People have moved from relying on appearances, and they are now heavily invested in 'what lies within'."

The study was conducted among 10,384 Gen-Z and Millennial active dating app users from Delhi, Mumbai, Bengaluru, Hyderabad, Kolkata, Bhubaneshwar, Calicut, Kochi, Lucknow, Nagpur, Kanpur, and other Tier 2 and 3 cities. Participants ranged in age between 20 and 35, and were chosen from different professional and educational fields for a comprehensive analysis. The survey reveals that 6 out of 10 daters today use personality archetypes as a valid personal dating filter.

Matches don't need to mirror each other

Around 41 per cent of daters revealed they look for a partner whose personality complements theirs, not mirrors it. For these daters, the ideal match isn't two extroverts fighting for speaking time, or two extremely quiet people waiting for the other to start the conversation. Rather, they typically lean toward matches who offer complementary dynamics. The survey shows that 56 per cent of users self-identify as having selective affection, quiet, and slightly mysterious Black Cat energy, and 9 out of 10 of them intentionally search for matches who radiate the warm, enthusiastic, optimistic, and emotionally open "Golden Retriever" vibe.

Conversely, 46 per cent of self-described Golden retrievers are attracted to people with a more reserved personality and calm aura. 6 out of 10 long-time couples disclosed that this combination creates an emotionally balanced environment in the relationship, with one partner bringing spontaneity while the other offers a more grounded perspective.

Personality labels over long explanations

One of the most interesting findings is how personality labels, which started as fun and games are now used as communication tools that efficiently replace long explanations. About 34 per cent of men and 38 per cent of women from Delhi, Bengaluru, and Mumbai shared that daters prefer matches who add personality labels to their bios; it is easier to understand their dating style before interaction. Gautami (28) from Delhi, said, "So, when a match writes a hundred and ten good things about himself—like he is positive-minded and always enthusiastic to try new things—it feels like I am reading someone's resume. But instead, when I see 'Golden Retriever Energy, ' it immediately sounds cuter, plus less braggy."

The study also found that for Gen-Z users, these are typical dating shorthands and make the first interaction much less awkward with matches already aware of the type of personality they are dealing with.

Beyond Looks

The most significant takeaway from the study is the shift of emphasis from superficial preference to emotional fit. Over 43 per cent of daters between 25 and 35 explained that, currently, personality archetype influences their dating choices much more than physical traits. Divyanshu, a 26-year-old software engineer from Pune, commented, "A year back, honestly, I looked at profile pictures to match. Now, I care more about how a person describes themselves, converses, and expresses complex emotions. I see these interesting names for personality types—Black Cat, Orange Cat, Golden Retriever—but more than the names, I always think that this person has put in the effort to figure themselves out and label their personality. To me, it screams emotionally mature and sorted."

According to a survey by Indian dating app QuackQuack, about 51 per cent of dating app users from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities described it as the soft exit season, where daters don't end a connection on a sour note but rather deal with it like mature adults. They claimed that instead of explosive confrontations and ruthless exit strategies, the modern daters communicate disinterest more subtly without crushing the other person.

Nayanika, a 27-year-old from Pune, said, "I have been in the shoes of the rejected and the rejecter. It's not kind to be brutally honest about your disinterest; it works faster but fast is not the only option. We are living in the times of meaningful and intentional connections. I believe the ending should be emotionally aware too."

The study was conducted from January to April 2026, among 9,347 users from metros and smaller cities. Participants ranging between 23 and 35 took the survey. The in-depth analysis of the data collected shows that singles across India have adopted a much softer exit approach, and their behavior brings a major shift in the dating world.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "The emotional quotient of our users doesn't just show in how they match, but also how they disconnect when things don't go the way they expected. Daters from metros like Mumbai, Delhi, Bangalore, where people have a generally hectic lifestyle, and they tend to be more fast-paced, also ensure that while rejecting someone, they are being kind and taking it slow. Modern daters' focus on mental health and introspection made it possible for even exit to look kinder."

Rejection can be kind

For several years, ruthless ghosting has tormented the dating world. Suddenly disappearing without explanation or taking accountability seemed like the easiest way to sever ties. But that was before the rise of emotionally aware intentional dating. According to the survey report, 48 per cent of users today choose a much softer form of exit: rejection that looks kind and is less emotionally damaging. About 7 in 10 dating singles explained that they prefer to gradually reduce interaction instead of going cold turkey. They intentionally delay replies, shorten the conversation length, and politely distance themselves from a match they are uninterested in, instead of following the cut-off and block method that has disrupted many singles' mental health. Moreover, ending things with an explanation is becoming the norm now.

Nice avoidance

The survey shows an interesting pattern: 39 per cent of women from Hyderabad, Mumbai, and Kolkata, and 31 per cent of men from Pune, Kochi, and Ahmedabad are following the "nice avoidance" trend while exiting a connection. The trend allows people to avoid brutal honesty; instead of directly saying, "not interested", 8 in 10 daters choose softer cues. There's been a rise in "I am working on myself right now", "I am not the right fit currently", and more "I" related terms to end things. Indian singles are taking responsibility, and their "I" statement usually stems from self-awareness. Ajay, a 29-year-old content creator, said, "Vague exits are mean. So is humiliating someone. I don't like someone back, so the issue is me. I should take responsibility and, at the same time, protect myself. I think nice avoidance works the best for that."

Soft ghosting

The middle ground of online breakups is soft ghosting, says over 44 per cent of Indian singles between 22 and 28 years. Unlike traditional ghosting, there's no disappearing act. It's more about slowly fading away, but also keeping some contact, like occasionally checking in on them, or liking a post. The idea is to still be in the person's life, but with a different dynamic. The survey shows that the trend is especially followed by young men.

In a consumer study by Indian matchmaking and matrimony app Rebounce, previously married singles opened up about their journey of healing and finding love again, and "couple's therapy" came out as the hero element of their journey. 

The survey reveals a sharp openness toward therapy and couples therapy among the divorced, separated, and widowed singles looking to remarry or seeking a long-term serious relationship. More than 44 per cent of these individuals called it a "proactive relationship investment" for a better future.

The study was conducted among 8673 divorced, separated, and widowed individuals who were between 27 and 45 years. Participants came from metros and smaller Indian cities. The survey showed that 91 per cent of the respondents are employed, while 9 per cent were homemakers. The detailed analysis of the study shows a quiet change in the second-chance seekers' world, with the majority seeking emotional counseling to break the pattern, avoid repeated emotional exhaustion, and deal with unresolved resentment toward their past experience. 

Ravi Mittal, who is the founder and CEO of the matchmaking app, commented, "Previously married singles are far more conscious in their approach; we say this over and over again. They have not only worked around the taboo of ending a marriage that did not deserve to be carried any longer, but also the judgment around seeking professional help to sort out their emotions. It is inspiring."

Therapy after the end and before a new beginning

Over 38 per cent of divorced and separated singles in their 30s clearly stated that they have been to therapy after their marriage ended, and in the journey to finding a compatible partner for re-marriage, they would strongly consider visiting a couples' therapist in case there is any lapse in communication or emotional trigger surfacing during their courtship period with a serious match. In the survey, widowed individuals spoke of therapy before committing to someone new as an "emotional checkpoint" as opposed to the crisis-management view of the same from the divorced singles' perspective. The difference in stance mostly stemmed from how their marriage ended.

Unhealed baggage can be a deal breaker

One of the strongest insights from the survey showed that for approximately 57 per cent of the previously married singles from both Tier 1 and 2 cities, their match's unhealed trauma from the previous marriage is acceptable, but the refusal to work on it and sort it out before committing to a new relationship is not. This major shift in second-chance relationships shows that they are prioritising emotional accountability over societal labels. Anushree (33) from Delhi said, "I don't mind that my match has a rough past, which has shaped him in some ways. I do too. But I would start minding it if he refused to reflect on it and go to therapy to resolve those sensitive issues."

Couple's therapy expectations

Interestingly, 28 per cent of divorced, separated, and widowed individuals who found love for a second time revealed that they opted for couples therapy before saying yes to the relationship. They clarified that therapy should not only be done after the damage is done; it can be preventive, too. For 12 per cent of these people, the therapy helped build healthy boundaries that they were unable to create in their previous marriage. Ajay, a single father from Indore, said, "We expect health checkups before marriage, so why not emotional checkups too? It is not something to be addressed only when an emergency strikes. Maintenance is very important, especially for people like us who haven't had a pleasant experience with love previously."

7 out of 10 previously married singles who found love again and are considering remarriage explained that they don't purely depend on blind compatibility and compromise anymore. They also disclosed that after their marriage ended, therapy was just as embarrassing as the failed marriage. But they no longer look at it as a tool for "failing couples", but rather they associate the same with emotional guidance by a professional.

A recent survey by Indian dating app, QuackQuack, has found a steep rise in virtual dates among the online dating crowd, with more than 37 per cent of singles from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities opting for digital dates and online interactions with shared activities over meeting in person. The study demonstrates how modern dating can quickly adapt to any situation, even in climate change-related crises.

The survey was conducted among 8,967 daters aged 20 to 35 from metros and Tier 2 and 3 cities. Participants came from various professional fields, including IT, marketing, finance, healthcare, education, administration, entrepreneurship, students, and those between jobs. The app's Founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Dating behavior really is seeing a massive shift this summer, in ways we did not anticipate. There's a rise in late-night traffic on the app, and people have paused chasing high-effort connections. Mostly, we are seeing a lot of singles interacting with matches who naturally fit into their daily lives and don't require extra attention and effort to make time and space. Moreover, virtual dates are no longer just a safety precaution or compromise; it's a real thing now."

Cool Hour Romance

The app's data shows a steady spike in traffic after 11 pm, with daters between 22 and 28 interacting with their matches more between 11 pm and 1 am than at any other time of the day. More than 41% of users from tier 1 and 2 cities with a 9-5 job shared that the extreme heat and hectic lifestyle combo is becoming a barrier in their dating lives, especially during the daytime. With energy drained, these daters explained that they usually don't get the urge to interact with people they genuinely like during the daytime. The survey reveals that the peak in traffic at the "cool hour," as daters term it, is because most of them prefer to use dating apps from the comfort of their homes, after work hours, and definitely after a long rest. Divyanshu from Delhi, an IT professional, joked, "If I don't come home, freshen up, feed myself something, and rest a bit, I am way too cranky to chat with anyone. Heat really brings out the worst in me; I might go off on my match. The 11 to 12 timing feels perfect to me. Not too late, and importantly, not too hot."

Emotional comfort over performative dating

The study highlighted that 8 in 10 people have moved from connections with high-effort expectations to comfortable interactions. During the summers, singles from metros like Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, and Hyderabad are opting for comfortable interactions that seamlessly fit into their regular schedule. Over 39% of respondents confirmed that the summer fatigue has made "easy companionship" more appealing. Kaveri, a 31-year-old marketing specialist from Hyderabad, said, "If my match expects me to dress up and meet him out in this heat, I will definitely fall short of his expectations and that's not fair to either him or me. So, I am intentionally opting for people who fit my routine. For example, I recently matched with someone whose office is right next to mine. So now we can go for a quick meet any time without having to expose ourselves unnecessarily in this heat."

Nostalgia farming

The survey data show a new trend, "nostalgia farming," with a rise in nostalgia-led conversations among matches during the summer months. 41% of women and 34% of men between 22 and 32 disclosed that they got really close to their match, whom they had been chatting with for weeks, when they started bonding over shared childhood memories of summer times. There's a sudden popularity in topics like summer vacations, visiting grandparents, mangoes, power cuts, and school homework. Singles from metros and suburbs alike explained that these conversations are more than just chats; they are emotionally grounding and help them understand each other's childhood and upbringing without having to ask direct questions.

The latest survey on user safety by Indian second-chance matchmaking and matrimony app, Rebounce, shows that previously-married singles are not just relying on the platform to keep them safe; they are actively participating in safe matchmaking themselves. Over 58 per cent of the app's users have a deeply personal rule of engagement.

The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "Unlike first-time daters, the divorced singles' cohort of lived experience plays a part in their process of partner selection, as well as 'safe matching.' Their awareness motivates us to constantly upgrade our safety systems in place; they are constantly introducing new standards of safety, and we are crafting our platform in new ways to ensure those standards are met."

The survey was conducted among 3746 men and 4758 women between 28 and 45, from metros, and Tier 2 and 3 cities. The insights are based on online polls, in-app behavior patterns, and user stories.

Narrative Testing
Spotting obvious red flags is for newbie daters. 37% of divorced and separated singles claimed that revisiting past details, like family history, job details, relationship with the ex, and checking if the narrative changes too often over multiple conversations, is the best when it comes to being cautious about matches. Safety is not just instinct; it is memory and pattern tracking. Unlike most red flags, these are not dramatic slip-ups. These are subtle changes that can raise suspicion when someone is paying close attention, shared 17% of female participants. Radhika, 31 year old marketing specialist, said, "If I feel someone is telling me different versions of their story based on when and what the situation demands, or they are saying what they believe I want to hear, I slowly step back. I want real. There's no space for made-up stories for the sake of impressing your match."

Too much, too soon?
27% of divorced and separated men and 31% of women from Tier 1 specifically mentioned that emotional pacing is one of their personal favorites when it comes to matchmaking safety. 6 out of 10 respondents mentioned that when a match escalates emotionally too quickly, they get suspicious. According to them, the pace at which a connection progresses speaks a lot about the genuineness and sustainability of the relationship. Bhairav (37), single dad from Mumbai, said, "I want things to grow gradually. Someone saying they feel a strong connection or starting future talk even before we have discussed how she fits into my daughter's life and vice versa, feels a bit thoughtless and rushed to me."

21% of these respondents even disclosed that they intentionally slow down to see if the other person is pushing too hard. Anvi, divorced for 2 years, said, "Sometimes I wonder if my doubts are because of my previous bad experience, so I need to double-check. So if I slow down, and the person tries to match my pace, I understand that I was overthinking."

Reaction testing for Vulnerability
An emerging safety trend among the divorced and separated singles from Tier 1 and 2 cities between 35 and 45 is reaction testing. Over 45% of singles reported that they carefully share small, low-risk personal details about themselves with their match, rather than oversharing immediately. This is a controlled approach to vulnerability and gives them ample time to gauge how their match is reacting to that information; whether they remain indifferent, react dramatically, show empathy, start mirroring them, or deflect entirely. These micro responses help these singles safely navigate their journey to finding love and help build trust in layers, instead of overdoing it from the get-go.