'All the girls think of me only as a buddy!'

Apr 19, 2013, 00:02 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I am 25 and don't have a girlfriend. Although I have several female friends with whom I share a close bond, there is no one who thinks that I am special.

They only think of me as their buddy. I feel very dejected that I’m always ending up friendzoned by them. I’m attracted to one girl but she thinks that I’m friendship material!
— Roger

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Roger,
Good heavens! You feel you are so lonely. But what have you done to make that special girl feel special? No wonder they all consider you as mere buddies. First of all there is no age limit on having a girlfriend. In such things age does not matter. Next time you feel attracted to a girl, tell her so. Drop hints and make her realise that she is special. Meanwhile stop moaning and groaning about the lack of a love life. You alone can make it happen. So why blame anyone else for your state of affairs!

Diana will solve it!
Write to Diana at diana@ mid-day.com, or fax her on 24150009. You can also post letters to Dear Diana, Mid Day, Peninsula Centre, Dr S S Rao Road, opp Mahatma Gandhi Hospital, Parel, Mumbai 400012

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