'My friends mock me in front of a girl I like'

Updated: Dec 27, 2016, 08:26 IST | Dr. Love |

How do you express yourself in front of a girl who you know, and react to the situation when your friends mock you in front of her? I am very eager to be a friend

How do you express yourself in front of a girl who you know, and react to the situation when your friends mock you in front of her? I am very eager to be a friend.
— Aldon D
I'm not sure I understand you correctly. You want to be friends with a girl, but your friends make fun of you while she's around? If this is what you mean, I don't think you have a problem at all. It means she is aware of you and has the option of being friends with you if you tell her you would like that. She needs to understand that you are not the person your friends make fun of. And if she thinks being friends with you is not interesting enough, you won't know unless you make the effort to find out. Either way, I wouldn't pay too much attention to your friends, and instead focus on letting this girl get to know you a little better when they are not around. Meet her for a cup of coffee, perhaps?

Is there a specific period of time after which it's okay to end a relationship? My girlfriend and I have been together for six months now, but we both think it's not working out. We don't chat much, rarely go out, and don't really have much to say to each other. We aren't ending it because we think we are supposed to try and make it work, but I don't really see the point.
You seem to have confused your relationship with your job, where the amount of time you are in a company reflects well or badly on your CV. If you both think it isn't working out, why aren't you putting yourselves out of your misery and moving on with your lives? Why waste a moment on something that doesn't make sense out of a mistaken sense of obligation? Life is short. Make it count, preferably with someone who wants to make it count with you.

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