'My girlfriend has feelings for another guy'

Updated: Nov 17, 2016, 16:04 IST | Dr. Love

My girlfriend and I broke up recently. Our relationship had many ups and downs over the last couple of months. She said she had feelings for someone else while being with me...

My girlfriend and I broke up recently. Our relationship had many ups and downs over the last couple of months. She said she had feelings for someone else while being with me, which is why we ended up splitting 12 times before our final break up. I am truly in love with her but have decided to finally let her go. Please help me out.
— Ikjot S
I'm not sure how you want me to help, because it seems as if you have finally just decided to help yourself. Splitting up 12 times is not funny, because it points to some serious issues. The fact that she admitted to having feelings for someone else also shows that you didn't really have much of a choice. Your relationship just wasn't meant to be, if one takes all the signs into account. I think you have done what is best for you. Being in love with her doesn't matter if she doesn't feel the same way. If you have put this behind you, give it time and you will be able to move on with your life.

I don't like going out with my boyfriend because he's embarrassing. His jokes are awful, he says inappropriate things to my friends and he doesn't have any social skills. I like hanging out with him in private because he's a nice guy, but my friends get tired of him quickly. I don't want to end this relationship, but he really is difficult to deal with. What should I do?
Have you told him this? Maybe he assumes he's being funny when he's not, which is a common affliction in India if you look at any of the shows or films labelled 'comedy' on television. If you don't want to end your relationship, I suppose it's because you value his presence in your life. You can't change who he is, but you can always share your point of view and get him to understand that some things are just not okay.

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