'Should I visit a prostitute to end my dry run?'
I haven’t had sex in over six months, which is when my girlfriend and I split. This is beginning to worry me, because we used to have sex regularly until that point...
I haven’t had sex in over six months, which is when my girlfriend and I split. This is beginning to worry me, because we used to have sex regularly until that point. Should I visit a prostitute? My friends want me to.
To begin with, prostitution is illegal. Secondly, visiting a prostitute is not a solution. Thirdly, millions of people manage just fine without having sex for years; some of these people even end up becoming prime ministers of countries. You are placing too much importance on the need for sex, and your friends aren’t helping. Take a cold shower and re-evaluate your options.
I am a 30-year-old unmarried man in a 2-year relationship with a 37-year-old married woman. Until a few months ago, she used to give me a lot of time and share everything about her life. She recently got divorced though and has been depressed ever since. She no longer speaks to me much and rarely gives me any time. What can I do?
— Bhagawan S
There’s nothing you can do if she doesn’t want to meet you, because that is her prerogative. She obviously needs time to deal with something as life changing as a divorce, and I suppose the idea of cheating on her husband hasn’t gone down well with her either. She obviously needs some time to sort things out in her personal life, and you may be perceived as a distraction for now. If you genuinely care about her, all you can do is give her time to come to terms with her altered situation and let her arrive at a solution of her own choosing. If she believes you should be a part of her life, she may spend more time with you again at some point. If she believes it makes more sense to turn this page completely and leave her past behind, you will simply have to deal with that too. Either way, it takes two people for a relationship to work.
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