'My fiancee won't stop picking fights with me'

Updated: Jan 03, 2017, 10:21 IST | Dr Love

My fiancee fights with me all the time for no apparent reason. I don't know what to do about this. I think she has anger management issues, but she refuses to speak to a counsellor...

My fiancee fights with me all the time for no apparent reason. I don't know what to do about this. I think she has anger management issues, but she refuses to speak to a counsellor. I'm afraid this can make things very difficult for us after marriage, but she refuses to consider it. In fact, she tends to get more upset whenever I bring it up. What can I do? This marriage may not work if she continues in this manner.

If you believe she has anger management issues, maybe she does need to speak to a counsellor. It's also imperative that she does this before you marry because, as you point out correctly, it may get worse after marriage. If she refuses to speak to someone and get professional help, you should consider telling her that the marriage may not work out. And if you're not confident of it working, you should tell her that too. Don't commit to someone for life when you aren't sure about making it through thick and thin. You both owe it to yourselves to consider all things carefully before taking that step.

I am tired of documenting every part of my relationship on Facebook. I do it because my girlfriend insists. She clicks photographs of every dish we order, checks into every movie theatre by tagging me, comments on what we do every time we go out and, in general, makes it look as if we are constantly doing something exciting, which gets on my nerves. I want her to stop but she says I'm being anti-social. In all honesty, I just want some peace and quiet. I don't want to respond to a hundred messages on Facebook all day. What can I do about this?

If she doesn't get it, I suggest you unfriend her on Facebook. Or deactivate your account for a month until she figures out that there's more to life than social media platforms. She needs to learn to live offline a little.

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