'He doesn't like me, but I still can't get over him'

Jun 19, 2017, 06:00 IST | Dr Love

How do I forget the guy I love the most? I have tried many times and have met a lot of other boys, but I love him alone...

How do I forget the guy I love the most? I have tried many times and have met a lot of other boys, but I love him alone. I have told him about my feelings, but he says he doesn't love anyone. I message him often, and he replies every now and again, but nothing happens. I want to move on with my life but, every other day, I message him again. Is there a solution? — Apeksha D
There's really nothing you can do about this if he's not interested. It isn't a Bollywood film, where the dim-witted hero realises he's been wrong all along and falls in love with the woman after the interval. If you want to move on, why not simply delete his number from your phone? If you have decided to memorise the number (something tells me you probably have), why not practice a bit of self control and slowly increase the number of days between which you send him messages? Also, ask yourself what is the point of sending him messages in the first place.

I dated a girl for a few months, but just when I thought she was interested, she said she didn't want to go out with me anymore. I don't know where I went wrong and now she won't respond to me, even if all I want to do is try and figure out what I could have done better.
If she's not responding, there's not much you can do about it without coming off as slightly creepy. I suggest you move on, date someone else, and ask your friends if they think you come on too strong. Maybe it has nothing to do with you. Don't beat yourself up about it. As long as you're being yourself, there's no reason to change unless you're being particularly obnoxious. Speak to friends, try and get a sense of how women see or respond to you. It happens to everyone.

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