'She wants to have sex every day, but I'm tired'

Updated: Dec 29, 2016, 08:39 IST | Dr. Love

I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. My girlfriend wants me to have sex with her daily but, for the past two weeks, I feel as if I don't have the stamina to keep doing this. What should I do?

I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. My girlfriend wants me to have sex with her daily but, for the past two weeks, I feel as if I don't have the stamina to keep doing this. What should I do?
— Stavan S
I'm not sure if this lack of stamina has physical causes or if there's something playing on your mind that prevents you from having sex with her regularly. I suggest you think about what the problem could be. If there are other things occupying you, sex may not be a priority every single day. If it's physical, why not consider talking to an expert? Why do some men behave the way they do? They are rude, uncaring, but also possessive when their girlfriends talk to other men. I don't understand why they do this. My boyfriend is one of these people and I am sick and tired of his behaviour. Why do some men behave the way they do? Why do some women behave the way they do? Human beings are strange creatures. We have been destroying our planet since the day our first ancestor decided to get out of a tree, so analysing our behaviour is pointless. If your boyfriend is rude and uncaring though, I don't see why you need to put up with it. Speak to him and ask him to get his act together. If he doesn't, there are plenty of men who aren't rude or uncaring. I can think of at least two.

My boyfriend keeps sending me semi-nude photographs of himself by WhatsApp. I have told him that I find it annoying and pointless, but he does it anyway. What should I do about this?
He is obviously a narcissist who fancies himself more than you. Threaten to post his photographs on your Facebook page and he will stop at once. And if he doesn't, you have the option of blocking him on WhatsApp too, don't you? Use it.

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