He never satisfies me physically
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My boyfriend ejaculates quickly whenever we have sex. This is a problem because I am never satisfied, and he always is. I think his habit of watching pornography too often is to blame, but he refuses to think of it as a problem. How do I ever resolve this if he doesn't even acknowledge it?
You deserve as much physical pleasure as your boyfriend does, so your complaint is justified. I can't comment on his porn-watching habits because you may need the advice of a professional to validate that. It is important for him to acknowledge this though, because physical intimacy is an integral part of any relationship. He should meet a professional with you.
I have been under a lot of pressure from my girlfriend to propose and settle down. We have been together for less than a year, so I don't feel comfortable with this idea at all. It's not as if I don't love her, but I don't want to be forced into something so serious without evaluating the situation well. Her parents are threatening to marry her off, but I don't want to let this drive my own decisions.
You're right about not rushing into this. Your girlfriend may have a valid reason to hurry but making important decisions under pressure isn't always a good thing. Why don't you tell her that you need more time, and ask if she is willing to wait? If she can't, ask her to make a decision. If there is no solution, she may have to move on.
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