I am in love with two women

Jun 22, 2012, 07:57 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I am a 27-year-old guy with a steady girlfriend. However, I've been best friends for the last two years now with this other girl I met on the internet

I am attracted to this internet friend but we don’t try to go overboard as she is aware that I’m in a relationship. I don’t know what to do about this suppressed feeling. The guilt of ditching someone who truly cares for me would be unjust but at the same time I want to evaluate my options because I don’t want to regret later in life.
— Philips

Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Philips,
You are one confused soul. You need to make up your mind soon. You say you have a steady girlfriend but at the same time have developed feelings for a net pal. So it’s simple... choose who you want to be with. The net friend knows that you have someone in your life but is still pursuing you! That’s strange too. May be this girl thinks you will dump your steady for her. Remember you can’t have both. As for regretting that you did not give the other one a chance. Then you will have to make your girlfriend No 1 aware of what is playing on your mind and the presence of another woman in your life. She will raise hell so be prepared to face the consequences too. So be prepared to face the ire. 

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