'I caught my girlfriend flirting online'

Aug 06, 2013, 23:36 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, Last week, I hacked into my girlfriend's Facebook account and was shocked to see her flirting with a guy.

Their lovey-dovey conversations really hurt me. She always told me that he is was just a friend of hers and there was nothing more to it. But by snooping on her, I’ve found that there is more to their relationship. What should I do now? It’s obvious that she’s not happy with me.
— Melroy

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Melroy,
You hacked into her account as you wanted to know what she was up to. It’s clear that you don’t trust her. And if there’s more that meets the eye with her online pal, the message is clear. You and your girl have hit a rocky patch in the relationship. If you loved her, why on earth would you go hacking into her account and behave like an insecure psycho. And if she was happy with you, why would she seek love elsewhere? You need to sit down and talk frankly about each other’s apprehensions. After this decide whether it is worthwhile continuing in the relationship. 

Diana will solve it!
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