'I'm 19 and can't wait to get married'

Aug 28, 2013, 09:14 IST | Dear Diana

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Dear Diana,
I’m 19 and not too good at studies. I hope to somehow complete my graduation. I don’t want to do a 9-5 job. I just can’t wait to get married and have kids. I love to cook. This is all I dream of doing. My friends think I am weird.
- Asima

Dear Diana

Dear Asima,
Remember most guys feel overwhelmed and suffocated by a woman who is so into him and has nothing else to do. As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not just waiting for him to come home. And that does not necessarily mean that you have a 9-5 job. You could pursue an interest or hobby of yours. You are fond of cooking — there are scores of women who make a living out of cooking and baking. By having an ambition of only being with the guy all the time will only stifle your guy. Also, right now you don’t even have a guy on the scene. So it is better that you concentrate on getting good marks. 

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