'I'm having an affair with a married woman'

Sep 11, 2013, 02:52 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I am a 30-year-old guy in a relationship with a 33-year-old married woman. We have been together for two years.

I am keen to marry her however she is not willing to leave her husband. She has no kids. She showeres me with gifts and whatever I ask for. Is she serious about me?
— Neelabh

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Neelabh,
She is indulging in an extra-marital affair. Her folks don’t know what she is up to. Have you given it a thought what will happen when her husband finds out? Hell will break loose and fingers will be pointed at you. If she is serious about you, she has to take a stand and choose. If she does not, you need to take a stand. Whenever you have asked her about taking the relationship to the next level, she evades the subject. This is a clear sign that she does not want to commit. It is better you move on ASAP.

Diana will solve it!
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