'I still love my former live-in partner...'

Jul 09, 2014, 06:00 IST | Dear Diana

I parted with my guy six months ago. We had been living-in for the past three years.

Dear Diana,
I parted with my guy six months ago. We had been living-in for the past three years. We had some issues and in the heat of the moment I decided to go my way. I'm still in love with him and would do anything and everything to have him back. I know deep down that he still has feelings for me. I want him back in my life so that I can show him how sorry I am and how much I love him, but he now refuses to even talk to me.
— Shefali


Dear Shefali,
It was your call and you took a decision to part ways with your live-in partner. It may have been one of those spur-of-the-moment decisions and it obviously hurt your partner. He is not taking heed of any your advances as he wants you to realise the pain you caused him. You will have to make amends by telling him that you are genuinely sorry about what you did. Apologise and if he still cares for you, he will relent. The next time do not make any such rash decisions.

Dear Diana,
I don't like my girlfriend's close pal. She loves to spend all her time with her buddy when I am not around. I feel she is a bad influence on my girlfriend. What's worse is that she does exactly what her pal wants her to do. As she is of a dominating nature, she has her way and my girlfriend toes the line. How do I knock sense into my girl that she is influencing her decisions and it is time she realised it? I have tried to tell her about it, but she is in no mood to listen to me.
— Terence

Dear Terence,
You need to exactly tell her why you think in such a manner. Is there anything in particular that irritates you about her friend? You seem to be in an agitated state of mind may be because she is not giving you as much attention as her pal. Sit down and talk it out with her in a cordial way.

Diana will solve it!
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