'I stumbled upon my husband's sex chats...'
In a hurry to leave for work, my husband had left the computer on
In a hurry to leave for work, my husband had left the computer on. While switching it off, I discovered that my husband was indulging in a sex chat. I found several pornography websites that he had been surfing. Is this normal? We have been married for two months.
Illustration/ Amit Bandre
It might be that your hubby is keen to be sexually adventurous, but is not sure how to go about it. He sees the internet as an outlet for his sexual fantasies. Or maybe he is indulging in it just for fun. You have been married for only two months, so perhaps he does not know how to broach the subject with you. You need to talk it over and get everything out in the open. In a relationship, communication is the key. It will also make you realise what he expects in bed.
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