'My buddy is having an affair with my girlfriend'

Oct 02, 2013, 23:33 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, My close friend and my girlfriend have been having a rollicking time right under my nose.

All this while I mistook their overfriendliness because I was the common factor. So I believed that’s the reason they too got along well. I don’t know how to forget what has happened. She has apologised but things are not the same between us. Should I move on?
— Chetan

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Chetan,
Your pal and your girlfriend have betrayed the trust you had in them. You felt their overfamiliarity was on account of the proximity to you. How naive could you have been. If you still are keen on her and she wants to make amends, you can forgive her. But it looks like this is a tough proposition as you state it is difficult to forget. It’s obvious that things will no longer be the same with your buddy. If you are willing to forget and forgive, stick to the girl or it is better you move on and let them be happy together.

Diana will solve it!
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