My colleague wants to have sex with me!

May 23, 2012, 07:27 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, My colleague is 28 and is getting married soon. She has been expressing her inhibitions regarding sex after marriage as she is a virgin.

She says she is not sure how it will go as the marriage is arranged. Coming to the point, she says she wants to have sex with me before she ties the knot to experience beforehand how it feels! And that way, she would be prepared better. She is attractive but I am not too sure whether I should take up this offer. Although she says we’ll not take it further once she’s hitched, I’m not sure if that would be possible. Is she trying to trap me.
— Jerry

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Jerry,
Be wary of her. Next she might level rape charges against you. It’s a strange request on the eve of her marriage. She needs to be telling her guy all this, not you. I suggest don’t fall in her trap. There are several virgins out there and don’t need a colleague just before their wedding to teach them a thing or two about sex. She is 28 and not a kid to not know what is happening around her. She is behaving like a babe lost in the woods. Let her be and let her find her way. You keep out of this mess. Think of what will happen if her future hubby finds out!

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