'My crazy ex-girlfriend wants me back in her life'

Apr 23, 2013, 00:12 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I am a 28 year-old-male who was in a relationship with a girl whom I met on a matrimonial website six months ago.

Though she claimed that I was the one for her she treated me very badly. There were instances where she got violent for some silly reason like getting a hair cut without her consent. She has created embarrassing scenes at public places more than once. Over the time, I realised she had psychological issues and needed counselling. My parents were very supportive and helped me out of this relationship a month ago. Recently I got a call from one of her friends saying that she is really sorry for what ever she did and still wants me to get back with her. What should I do?
— Kombaiya

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Kombaiya,
Steer clear of her. She is a psycho and won’t change. This woman will continue making your life miserable. Just tell this friend of hers that you have moved on and have found someone else. She cannot keep tabs on you or control your life. Thank goodness you were not married. She would have sure made life hell for you. 

Diana will solve it!
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