'My dad is angry because I was chatting with a guy'

Updated: Jan 20, 2018, 10:50 IST | Dr Love

My father caught me chatting with a boy on WhatsApp and now wants me to uninstall the app. This is unfair. How do I get him to change his mind?

 Dr. Love

Dr. LoveMy father caught me chatting with a boy on WhatsApp and now wants me to uninstall the app. This is unfair. How do I get him to change his mind?

Ask him what his reasons are. Confide in him and allow him to explain. Also ask him to consider your point of view.

There is a girl in my husband's office who routinely emails and calls him after work hours, when he's at home. This happens on weekends too. My husband has repeatedly asked her not to, because he knows this annoys me immensely, but she doesn't seem to get the message. I often get the feeling that she has a massive crush on him, because she stares at us even when I visit him in his office. I am not threatened by this, because I know my husband won't cheat on me, but it worries me, because if they ever go on an offsite together and she throws herself at him, I don't know if he will be able to resist her advances. Should I simply put my foot down and insist that he stop responding to her altogether? I don't want to be a nagging wife, but this is really starting to bother me.

This really is something your husband ought to manage, considering his colleague is overstepping her bounds. If he doesn't want her to email after office hours, he needs to convey this to her clearly or simply stop responding. As for you saying you trust him, how do you contradict it almost immediately by saying he may not be able to resist her advances? Either you trust him or you don't. If you think he will jump into bed with her if she throws herself at him, that doesn't really display trust. Tell him how you feel and why this woman makes you feel vulnerable, and then ask him to deal with it. You are entitled to your insecurities, and he should do what he can to address them.

The inbox is now open to take your most carnal and amorous queries. Send your questions on email to lovedoc@mid-day.com

Catch up on all the latest Mumbai news, current affairs from Mumbai, local news, crime news and breaking headlines here

Download the new mid-day Android and iOS apps to get updates on all the latest and trending stories on the go

Trending Video

Sign up for all the latest news, top galleries and trending videos from Mid-day.com

Subscribe
Loading...

Tags

Dr Love

Find out the mouth-watering modak hotspots around Mumbai!

Related News

This website uses cookie or similar technologies, to enhance your browsing experience and provide personalised recommendations. By continuing to use our website, you agree to our Privacy Policy and Cookie Policy. OK