'My fantasy is spoiling my reality'

Oct 16, 2013, 23:32 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm 27 and single. All my friends are in a relationship and I'm the odd man out.

They think I am a closet gay but I’m not. I just don’t seem to find anyone who can understand. I’m usually considered a weirdo because of my stubborn fantasies. In fact, my fantasy is spoiling my real life as I am unable to concentrate on anything — let alone work.
— Vinu

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Vinu,
You live in a world of fantasy, seeing what you want and doing what you want. But dude you need to wake up as reality is different. As you prefer to live in your world cut off from everyone, how do you expect to find a girl? The image that you have created is of your own doing. You need to come out of it and start living like the rest. And more importantly stop being stubborn. You seriously need a life so get going. Only if you lead a life detached from your fantasies that you can be like the rest.

Diana will solve it!
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