'My girlfriend broke up with me for no reason'

Oct 10, 2013, 23:36 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm 29 and was in a relationship with a girl for the last four years. When I spoke about marriage, she started finding faults in me.

She then started ignoring my calls and said that she was not ready for marriage and that she needs time to think. Then one fine day, she comes and tells me it’s over between us. After being in a committed relationship for so long, I feel lonely. I don’t know what to do.
— Terence

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Terence
This girl certainly does not deserve your love. She was using you and was not serious about a future with you. As long as you gave her importance and showered her with love, she was okay but commitment was not something she was looking for. You need to move on just as she has. Don’t even bother to spare any thoughts about her. You need complete closure and I am sure that there is someone better than this girl for you. The next time you feel lonely remember she did not care a damn for you. She was full of excuses and you are better off without her.

Diana will solve it!
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