My guy does not believe in soulmates

Sep 02, 2013, 10:44 IST | Dear Diana

I am 23 and I think I have met my soulmate but my guy doesn't think so

Dear Diana,
How do I convince him that we are meant to be together? The reason why I feel he is the one for me is because we connect on so many levels. I am extremely comfortable with him and tell him things I have never told anyone else. But the problem is that he is too realistic and feels all this soulmate stuff is nonsense.
— Kanupriya

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Kanupriya, 
A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep love, intimacy and sexuality. When two people have similar minds, they develop a deep connection. You have found someone who is highly compatible. You consider your guy as a soulmate with whom you want to journey through life. He may be not subscribing to such thoughts so why do you want to label him as a soulmate. He is realistic and does not want to carry any such appendages. As long as he is caring and loving, such tags don’t make a difference. You can continue considering him as a soulmate. It won’t affect your relationship just because he does not want to label you as one.

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