My guy has changed after our wedding

Jul 30, 2012, 07:07 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I have been with this guy for the last two years. When our affair started, he was very nice to me.

Even after we got married a year ago, things were okay. But lately, there seems to be a huge difference in his attitude towards me. He gets all worked up on the smallest of issues and creates a scene in front of other family members. I don’t know how a person can change this much within months! I wonder whether he’s having a secret affair. I have no clue how to deal with this change in relationship.
— Parzania

Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Parzania,
Your guy is showing his true colours. It seems like he has severe anger management issues. If he is behaving this way so early in the marriage, I doubt it will get better. He cannot treat you like this. Now that you are married to him, he feels the you’re right to be on alert to know of any tell-tale signs of his going astray. Before things get worse and he becomes physically abusive, you need to explain your situation to a sympathetic member of the family on his side. Also, you need to tell him what you feel. It is better to strike now than let things go out of control causing more strains in the marriage. Act as soon as possible.

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