'My guy is not ready to commit'

Aug 15, 2013, 23:56 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm 31 and I know this guy for quite a while now. We met online and after months of chatting, we decided to meet.

He is 33. We meet on weekends as we are busy with our jobs. He is caring and loving. I once mustered enough courage to ask him about his feelings for me. He refused to give an answer. He laughed it off. I’m confused about him. Is he interested in me or not? Why is he so commitment phobic?
— Saina

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Saina,
This guy does not want to commit. Considering that he is 33 and with a secure job, it beats me why he is dilly-dallying. Unless there is someone else on the scene and you are unaware of it. This guy may be just having fun and does not want to take the relationship to the next level. Considering that you both are mature and 30 plus, you need to talk it out with him. If he has no inclination in being serious about you, it is better to move on.

Diana will solve it!
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