My husband has wild fantasies in bed

Jul 12, 2012, 06:24 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, After a decade of marriage, our sex life has become boring. We knew it was something that happens after a while with kids and responsibilities

Sex had more or less become a chore for us, of late. So we decided to be completely open about each other’s true needs, however embarrassing, they may be. I realised that my husband never got to fulfill his wild sexual fantasies given my conservative background. The worst part is I never thought he would be someone with this sort of carnal leaning. Do you think he sought gratification elsewhere?
— Akhira

Illustration/ Satish Acharya

Dear Akhira,
Your man has revealed his wild fantasies and you can’t believe that he could even imagine such stuff... leave alone do it. At least he has been honest and admitted to what he felt and needed. May be he watched a lot of pornographic films in his younger days or when it comes to sex, he prefers it to be kinky. From your letter it appears that he has been faithful to you. He just said what he felt so there is no cause for alarm. If you want to please him in the way he wants, what’s stopping you? Better late than never! 

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