'My neighbour has ulterior motives...'
Dear Diana, I'm 30 and got married a year ago. My wife and I recently shifted to a new neighbourhood.
Everything was going smoothly for us till a neighbour entered my life. She’s in her mid-30s with a seven-year-old kid. Her hubby works overseas and comes down once a year. Initially, I thought she was being the good neighbour, but now I have realised that she is giving me ample hints that she is available and wants me at her home. I didn’t know how to react, so I just smiled. The worst part is she misinterpreted it as a signal of acceptance!
The fact that you soon realised that this woman had things on her mind should make you alert and cautious. Do not fall in her trap as it will ruin not only your married life, but also hers. Moreover, as you are neighbours, it will make living in the vicinity unbearable. Tell her clearly you are not interested at all. Do not yield to temptation and destroy your personal life.
Diana will solve it!
Write to Diana at diana@ mid-day.com, or fax her on 24150009. You can also post letters to Dear Diana, Mid Day, Peninsula Centre, Dr S S Rao Road, opp Mahatma Gandhi Hospital, Parel, Mumbai 400012