My wife does not share my enthusiasm for life

May 13, 2013, 07:13 IST | Dear Diana

I'm 30 and got married a year ago

Dear Diana,
My wife doesn’t share the same zest for life as I do. My personal life has become a total mess. I have now taken a liking to one of the girls in office. Should I tell her about my feelings?
— Aparichit

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Aparichit,
First of all you are married. So by having feelings for another woman it means you are going astray. This could lead to an extramarital affair which will create even more havoc in your life. Your wife may not share your enthusiasm for life. But remember each person is of a different nature. You seem to be outgoing while she appears reserved. So it is up to you to find the right balance. You cannot be like her, right? So how do you expect her to be like you? You should have thought of all this before marriage. Find a middle path, in which both you and your wife will be happy. 

Diana will solve it!
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