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'Our long-distance relationship is not working...'

Updated on: 22 April,2014 06:13 AM IST  | 
Dear Diana |

I am in a relationship with a woman for the past five years. She recently took up a job in Abu Dhabi while I am based in Mumbai. Due to the distance between us, I'm extremely frustrated

'Our long-distance relationship is not working...'

Dear Diana

Dear Diana,
I am in a relationship with a woman for the past five years. She recently took up a job in Abu Dhabi while I am based in Mumbai. Due to the distance between us, I'm extremely frustrated. On top of that, I can't visit her because I have some immigration issues. She is well-settled there and has no intentions of coming to Mumbai. We have started fighting over the phone. Our long- distance relationship just does not seem to be working.
— Sumer

Dear Diana 


Dear Sumer,
She does not want to come to Mumbai, you cannot travel there due to certain issues. So if you want to continue in the relationship, you need to stop getting frustrated. She seems to have made herself comfortable and has no intentions of being with you anytime soon. So either you play the waiting game or decide to go your seperate ways. If you want to be in a long distance relationship, you need to give your partner a lot of space and have loads of patience.


Dear Diana,
I'm 25 and hoping to find that someone special. However, despite my best efforts, I haven't been able to find anyone. The girls find me cute, but don't think I'm the right guy to have a serious go. I am not sure of taking that extra step, but one of the girls I met recently has started liking me. Now I don't know what to do as I keep wondering if what she tells me is true considering the reaction I have got from the other girls around.
— Ranjeesh


Dear Ranjeesh,
Your mind is all muddled up. All this while you were keen to have a girl in your life. Now that you have found one you don't know how to handle it. Why are you doubting what she is saying? Put all your apprehensions to rest and be yourself instead of thinking about her intentions and why she has taken a fancy to you.

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