'There's no guy in my life...'
Dear Diana, I'm a 28-year-old software professional devoid of a love life.
I was interested in this guy, but he has gotten himself a new girlfriend. He wants me to come along to pick gifts for her. My biggest tragedy is that by the time I muster courage to express my feelings, they are already hooked. Will I ever find someone?
You know your shortcoming, so work on improving the situation. At the same time, don’t be the woman who is hellbent on having a man. When you get to know a guy and hang out with him, it is easy to decipher what is on his mind. And the only way he can ascertain what’s on your mind is by the way you behave with him. So you have to give some clue that you are interested in him. Be yourself, but at the same time use your body language to drop hints. You might be conservative and wonder how the guy will react, but remember he too is waiting for a signal from you to make his next move.
Diana will solve it!
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