I am 23, from Tamil Nadu, but live in Bangalore. I have been in love with a girl for the past two years...
They've placed her under lock and key, away from me
Dear Diana,
I am 23, from Tamil Nadu, but live in Bangalore. I have been in love with a girl for the past two years. She was confused about loving me as we belong to different religions. She later admitted to loving me. Even so, she used to tell me to leave her. Then, continued to love me whenever I convinced her. It happened many times. She gives importance to her family as well as me. She changes sides when she goes home. Four months ago, we fought with each other when she was in her home. She got caught by her parents. Her parents siezed her mobile and locked her up. She never contacted me since then. I could not forget her. I've never never seen a girl like her. I cannot live without her. I had no bad habits before but now have several addictions. Though I finished my Mba, I could not concentrate on getting a good job. Most of my friends advised me to leave her but i can not. I needu00a0 to let her know stillu00a0 I love her and am suffering a lot. Her parents closely monitor all her calls. How do I call her without her parents knowing. Also, what kind of girl is she?
Yaser
Dear Yaser,
She's quite unsure of what to expect if she decides to be with you. Her parents provide a kind of shield from the world outside her own.u00a0 Is your belonging to another religion the only thing that stands between you and your love? Is she also a minor? She happens to love her family above all else. Why would she elope with you and bring them shame? I'm not saying that you aren't a decent guy, just that without a good job, they won't even take you seriously.u00a0 For your love to overcome all these odds, you will have to persevere and make sure that the two of you want the same things in life: to be together.
Falling in love with a friend
Dear Diana,
I think that I may be falling in love with a friend of mine whom I have known for several weeks. I am not sure if he likes me as a friend or something more and I am too afraid to ask him as it may jeopardise our friendship or make things awkward between us. What do you suggest I do?
Anjali
Dear Anjali,
If you aren't sure of your feelings as yet, give the relationship some more time to develop. If you still think afteru00a0 that that he's the one, go and tell him. You can't keep your feelings bottled up inside forever. And besides, you'll only make yourself miserable if you don't.u00a0
I was never possessive before
Dear Diana,
I'm 22 years old and have been in a relationship with a girl for the past seven years. We've never had any misunderstandings or fights. These days, however, her growing friendship with a guy in her college bothers me. They have started hanging out and visit each other's place. That guy knows about me. I don't have a problem with them being friends but I also can't stand them being together. She always informs me when they are. Call me jealous and possessive but I was never this way before. I have expressed my concerns but she brushes it off with a "We are just friends, yaaru2026" What should I do?
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Dear Friend,
You love this girl and can't bear the thought of losing her. Then, why do you want to police the people she chooses to be friends with. It's downright silly and a sign of insecurity. She's stuck by you for seven years. That in itself should tell you something. What the two of you share is for keeps. He is just a new entrant in her life. Don't break your head over a problem that may not even exist.
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