Top 7 facts about divorce (Part 1)
Experts list a few significant factors that lead couples to cite 'irreconcilable differences'
Social networking is a major cause
Sites like Facebook are cited as a reason for a third of broken marriages last year and is increasingly being used as a source of evidence in divorce cases.
A law firm said that 33% of the 5,000 behaviour based divorce petitions filed with the firm in the past year mentioned the site.
“People contact ex-partners and the messages start as innocent, but lead to trouble
“If someone wants to have an affair or flirt with the opposite sex then it’s the easiest place to do it,” said the law firm's managing director.
The most common reasons for Facebook causing problems in relationships were a spouse finding flirty messages, photos of their partner at a party they did not know about or with someone they should not have been with.
More seniors are boarding the train to 'Splitsville'
Now, the current society witnessing a surge in divorce rates of among those beyond the age of 60, as, on reaching retirement many realise that they can no longer stand their husband or wife.
One reason behind the boom in “silver separation” is that some pensioners discover they have nothing in common with each other once their children fly the nest.
“They are not “old”! They can do many or most of the things that they could do in their earlier years, going on great holidays in the Himalayas, trekking through Borneo, visiting far-flung wild destinations or suddenly taking up sports that they never had a chance to try when they were younger.
“The baby boomers are redefining life at older ages. That includes re-evaluating their relationships and deciding to start again,” says the director general of a senior citizen's group.
Most couples split over frivolous reasons. Here's an example
Recently a Taiwanese couple were married only for one hour, until the husband dithered over his wife’s request for a new car.
The woman had brought him to a car dealer soon after registering their marriage, as she wanted her husband to buy an imported car for her.
But when he said he would consider it, she immediately snapped.
“Divorce me if you do not want to buy!” she was quoted as saying.
They then went back to the registration department to file for a divorce.