'We don't talk anymore...'

Sep 30, 2013, 02:58 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm 27 and recently met this amazing guy. We went out a couple of times and I thought that I had finally found a guy worth living with.

So we entered the next step: living-in. It was cool between us for a month or so before we started screaming at each other for the smallest of things. Now the status of our relationship is more silence than ever before. He just goes around his work without talking much to me. I don’t even understand why we are still together.
— Seeya

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Seeya,
Sadly life is not a bed of roses that you had imagined to be with this guy. There are ups and down. The romance seems to have gone out of the window and your relationship seems to have hit a rough patch. It’s normal for couples to fight. All that you need to do is sit down and talk it out. Looks like it is an ego issue and no one is willing to take the initiative. If you want a future with this guy, take the initiative to sort out the matter. If you’ll are getting on each other’s nerves, it is better to walk out of the relationship. The choice is yours.

Diana will solve it!
Write to Diana at diana@mid-day.com, or fax her on 24150009. You can also post letters to Dear Diana, Mid Day, Peninsula Centre, Dr S S Rao Road, opp Mahatma Gandhi Hospital, Parel, Mumbai 400012 

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