Why does he refuse to watch the movies I like?

Jan 13, 2018, 06:40 IST | Dr Love

My husband hates watching the movies I like, which makes it impossible for us to go to a movie theatre together. How do I get him to change

Dr. Love

Dr. LoveMy husband hates watching the movies I like, which makes it impossible for us to go to a movie theatre together. How do I get him to change?

Why can't you do things you like doing together instead, and ask a friend who shares your taste in movies to go along for films? How is this a problem, considering a movie barely lasts a couple of hours?

There is a girl I have been madly in love with for over a year now, but haven't been able to confide in because she is always surrounded by people. We chat online a few times, but she is always so busy that I can never even begin to tell her that I have a crush on her. I have wanted to a few times, but it frightens me because, if she ever tells her friends about what I say, I will be too embarrassed to even meet her again. I know I'm being childish, but I am so genuinely terrified of losing her that I have to be very careful with how I approach her and what I say. What do you suggest I do?

A year is a long time to waste on looking for the right moment to say something. If you genuinely like her and believe you should tell her how you feel, maybe you're giving the circumstances a lot more importance than you should. If you don't want to come right out and say something, you should, at the very least, spend as much time with her as possible to get to know her better and give her a chance to be comfortable around you. Why do you assume she will discuss what you have to say with her friends? Isn't that being a little too presumptuous? You can wait for another year, or let her know how you feel tomorrow and deal with what happens next. Life's too short though, so keep that in mind before you decide upon a course of action.

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