From roses with thorns to the habit of reacting before we have listened, the founder of Shrimad Rajchandra Mission Dharampur has simple, practical advice for keeping families close

Bhai Dooj is supposed to be about a brother and a sister. In most Indian homes it ends up being about the whole family: cousins dropping by, an aunt who has opinions on everything, a dining table that gets a little crowded and, sometimes, a little tense.