Dear Diana,
I have been married for two years. Things are going fine and my husband is loving and caring, but I have developed feelings for another guy. I don’t know why, but I can’t get this man out of my head. He is single. I met him at my husband’s friend’s birthday party of one of my hubby’s friends. As he and I were not drinking, we were sitting away from the rest. We got talking about common friends, our lives and exchanged numbers. I was not all surprised when he sent me a SMS three days later. He said he needed to tell me something. I was waiting for him to SMS or call. We started talking and spoke for three hours at a stretch. I really don’t understand what is happening to me. I have been meeting him on the sly. I am aware that I am wrecking my marriage and do not know what my husband will say when he finds out. I am getting frustrated. I have tried to get rid of these feelings, but I can’t. I have fallen in love with him.
— Raima

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